Jules Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 Hey i was with my boyfriend for about 5 months or so and things were going ok till after the relationship ended. he was doing exams and i didnt wanna interrupt his study by having a relationship so i suggested putting it on hold. in the end he decided to finish it totally. he still spoke to me and met up with me whenever i asked, thinking he may still have had feelings for me so anyway a while after that he started getting abit nasty towards me and throwing horrible remarks back at me saying that it was only a joke even though it hurt me inside. both of us were in a circle of friends and i discovered recently that he had kissed one of the friends in front of everyone we knew and i was really shocked and didnt know what to think or say. im fully aware we had broken up but i was so hurt by it cos other things came up in the relationship that made me slightly doubtful of him. i know he wasnt cheating but neither of them have barely spoken to me since this incident. what should i do? should i just forgive them or what? ive tried to be friends again but im finding it really awkward and hard to be around them. But i guess i kinda learned its wrong to date friends because he was a good friend of mine for about a year before we dated. but im still kinda cut up about it and not sure whats the best method to take. i want to forgive them yeah but im finding it really hard right now. please someone advise me on what to do about this be much appreciated
jcster Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 You should forgive them for your own peace of mind, but you may have to face the fact that your friendship with them is changed. It might take some time for things to return to a new normal. If it's worth it to you to keep them as friends, you'll have to be patient.
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