Unlucky in love Posted September 4, 1998 Posted September 4, 1998 I have had lousy luck with women. I treat them very well and get no further than the line "you're a nice person". This really pisses me off.
WildFire Posted September 5, 1998 Posted September 5, 1998 I have had lousy luck with women. I treat them very well and get no further than the line "you're a nice person". This really pisses me off. Hi:) This is very vauge(sp?) If you want to write some e-mails to me personally I'll do my best to get to know you over the net and I might be able to help pinpoint what's up and help you to decide what needs to be done to fix it, if anything...it could posibly be the kind of women your around, the places you meet tham...all kinds of things... my addy's <e-mail address removed> go ahead and use it anytime:) if i don't hear from you...there's nothing I can really do 'cept say I hope things work out for u.. ciao! *hugs* WildFire
LoveAngel Posted September 6, 1998 Posted September 6, 1998 I have had lousy luck with women. I treat them very well and get no further than the line "you're a nice person". This really pisses me off. Unlucky, "Treating women well" or anyone else for that matter doesn't automatically mean that they're going to like you or want to pursue any type of relationship with you. From the brevity of your posting and your focus on how you treat them, I'd say you're placing most of your tragedy on "being nice." But then again, what does being nice mean? That your chivalrous towards women? That you hold open doors or pull out chairs for them, for example? Or do you not ask for sex on the first 15 minutes of a date? "Nice" is a very relative term. It means different things to different people. And by no means can you expect to see a relationship form out of soley "being nice." It's a good start, treating people like humans, but there's a lot more that needs to be involved on your part and on the part of the couple. For example, similar interests, etc. WildFire's posting was rather correct when she stated that you were being brief so if you have anything you'd like to add to your comments, please reply here on this thread. Best wishes to you! Yours, LoveAngel
Robin Posted September 12, 1998 Posted September 12, 1998 I wanted to tell you i feel the same way, except I have lousy luck with guys. I am dying to meet someone to care for me but have been unable to. I often times wonder , what is wrong with me? do you feel similar? I have had lousy luck with women. I treat them very well and get no further than the line "you're a nice person". This really pisses me off.
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