sadbuttrue Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 ss, dont take it so personally. the posters insult most all MM, not just yours. hell, i even insult my own MM at times she really is just wanting you to see how she feels most MM are like. and they are for the most part all the bad things posters say. some aspects may not apply to yours, but these MM are not angels, else they would not be our MM you will find this happens all the time here. it is nothing against you.
Trimmer Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 When the poster is insulting my mm, the poster is insulting me. Well then, be prepared, because people may have some pretty negative things to say about his behavior, in the hopes of opening your eyes, and if you can't distinguish your identity from his, then you will most certainly feel beseiged if and when that happens.
bish Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Well, I mean, I don't like the whole secret thing, as I stated in another thread. I don't do 2nd place. I have grown attached to this guy. He's really a nice guy, and seems like his W doesn't appreciate him. Of course, what else are these MM going to tell you? Why would he go somewhere else if she did? MM/MW might get bored simply by being with the same person for too many years. Just want the thrill of getting some on the side. A new conquest for them. Its not always about not being happy with their significant other. It can be that they just aren't monogamous people and like to be with more than just the same old person forever. In other words, they are just downright selfish.
bish Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 sugar sweet, MM go somewhere else because they can. it isnt always that the W is so horrible. as long as there are women out there who will be available to them, then the temptation is there. BINGO!!!!!!
bish Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 When the poster is insulting my mm, the poster is insulting me. If you want to get into the "I'm offended" game, some here would say that you are offending them, or insulting them just by simply being an OW who defends her actions. Should we suggest that you be banned for doing so?
sugar_sweet Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 ummm...I think this is a forum for OW/OM. So, why is anyone insulting anyone if this forum is for this type of discussion? Please feel free to be insulted. I'm not name calling. I'm on here telling my story. Not to be on here to let people insult me. I can insult though.
bish Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 ummm...I think this is a forum for OW/OM. So, why is anyone insulting anyone if this forum is for this type of discussion? Nobody insulted you. You are just overly sensitive. Please feel free to be insulted. I'm not name calling. I'm on here telling my story. Not to be on here to let people insult me. I can insult though. Your not here to be insulted, but you can insult others? Uh....ok.
bish Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 It'll be either 1st or nothing. Well, good luck with nothing.
Havn_a_life Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 No, if I feel insulted, then I can insult, n'es pas?
bish Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 It'll be either 1st or nothing. Seriously though, you obviously aren't 1st, otherwise he'd have left his wife. So that being the case, are you ready to leave the R? I mean, saying "It'll be either 1st or nothing" is big talk. You gonna back it up and leave since you obviously aren't #1? Because if
Havn_a_life Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Well, that's my opinion anyway. I assume this poor deluded woman feels the same. It seems to me, if I am insulted, I would feel the need to insult. JMO 'Course, I'm not some M jerk's "side girl", either.
bish Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Seriously though, you obviously aren't 1st, otherwise he'd have left his wife. So that being the case, are you ready to leave the R? I mean, saying "It'll be either 1st or nothing" is big talk. You gonna back it up and leave since you obviously aren't #1? Because if Dang glitchy site. Ok..to finish. Because if its "1st or nothing" and you are neither/or, why are you still with him? Do your words mean nothing? Or will you back them up?
Trimmer Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Seriously though, you obviously aren't 1st, otherwise he'd have left his wife. So that being the case, are you ready to leave the R? I mean, saying "It'll be either 1st or nothing" is big talk. You gonna back it up and leave since you obviously aren't #1? Because if Hmmm... Abducted by aliens, right in the middle of posting.
bish Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 No, if I feel insulted, then I can insult, n'es pas? True dat. And some people live to be insulted.
sugar_sweet Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Well, that's my opinion anyway. I assume this poor deluded woman feels the same. It seems to me, if I am insulted, I would feel the need to insult. JMO 'Course, I'm not some M jerk's "side girl", either. yeah, well, again, you said it. It's your opinion. I'm not deluded, thanks! You're right, though, if I'm insulted, then I don't care to insult.
bish Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Hmmm... Abducted by aliens, right in the middle of posting. How did ya guess?? I had to pull this weird probe out of my arse too.
PoshPrincess Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 Well, I mean, I don't like the whole secret thing, as I stated in another thread. I don't do 2nd place. I have grown attached to this guy. He's really a nice guy, and seems like his W doesn't appreciate him. Why would he go somewhere else if she did? Sorry, Sugar Sweet, I am not saying this to insult you but I think you are being rather naiive if you believe that his W doesn't appreciate him. Even if she doesn't, HE is putting up with it, he's still taking her on holiday, HE is with HER not YOU! Like IWWH and the others, I am really only saying this for you own good because I've been there myself. You say you won't be 2nd best and if he doesn't leave his W then you will end it but we all get sucked in one way or another. What if he says he WILL leave? Will you hang around and wait till he does, IF he does, because plenty say that and I believe some of them even mean it, but it very rarely happens. You have only been seeing this guy for a month. What sort of a man would he be if he left his W for you after such a short space of time? Would you honestly want a man like that? You sound like you have your head screwed on in some ways so think carefully about what you want! You are more than likely heading for a lot of heartache.
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