Ashstar Posted June 15, 2007 Posted June 15, 2007 Where do I begin...well im 24 years old and just got out of a 8 year relationship 4 months ago. I decided that I wouldnt date so that I can give myself time to get my **** together. Plus there wasnt anyone around that I was interested in. Just minding my own business being single and such. And then BAM a friend of mine (age:21) who ive known through my roomate for three years, comes to one of my art shows dressed in a full suit, flowers, and a bottle of wine. Pretty classy. He kissed me on the cheak and after that I just fell hard for this guy. Two weeks ago we hooked up. (No sex just kissing ect). It was hot. The problem is after that Its been very difficult for us to hang out again. I like this guy a lot but it feels like hes way to busy for me. I try to make plans with him but hes always working or has other responsibilities to attend to. If a guy likes you shouldnt he make time for you? I feel ilke im trying to hard by being the one who innitiates things. We made plans to meet up in Copenhagen for a music festival in July. Im really excited about it. But I hope this guy isnt trying to give me the brush off. I dont want to come off clingy or desperate but im getting a lot of mixed signals from this guy and im new to this dating thing. Please help!
fray718 Posted June 15, 2007 Posted June 15, 2007 I think you should step back and let him initiate. If a guy really likes you then yes he'd make time to be with you...I once dated a guy who spent the whole sunday (8hrs) with me then went home and worked till 3am to finish a project...if he doesnt initiate then just let him be......there are better fish in the sea
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