Requiem Posted June 15, 2007 Posted June 15, 2007 I'm haveing troubles here and I dunno how to come to peace with myself and the situation. It seems that I cannot go either way with this. This girl I love and I have been with for quite some time, I dont wana leave her for anything but I need more than what is there. I have talked to her about it but I dunno if shes gona do anything about it anytime soon. Problem is I hate our relationship the way it is... I need her to be with me and around me more than she is. She cannot be there because her moms being quite controlling about it. She was at the point erlier this week where she was saying she just wanted to stay with me and get away from her mom. That is what i want is her to be here with me, but I dont want no problems with her family because of which. When she said that, it made me feel better because i felt she was devoted which was one of my worries. Well now she talked to her mom a couple days ago and it seems like everything there between them is settleing off again, they just needed some time appart. Which is good, but it means that she probobly wont have as much notion to get away from her mom where we can be togeather. Should I wait around for her to cut the imbillical cord, just lay it on the line of if you dont then im gone(seems selfish to me)? Then on my end, even though its what i want and everything is for her to be here with me. I am not set right where I can actually take that step without makeing major sacrifices. It seems to me like it would just be easier if I waited it out and deal with things till it can be the way we want them to be.
CaliGuy Posted June 15, 2007 Posted June 15, 2007 If someone can not meet your needs then you are wasting your time with them. Either you need to reassess what it is you want (ie: Decide that what she is giving you is enough) or pull up stakes and move on. There's nothing more sad than seeing a person waste emotional energy on someone who can not or will not meet their needs. Cheers.
Author Requiem Posted June 15, 2007 Author Posted June 15, 2007 I feel that what shes giveing me isnt enough. Just I know that one day she would be able to, I know she wants to and she will. Just a matter of when is she gona do it. Should I wait for it?
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