bish Posted June 15, 2007 Posted June 15, 2007 Of course its the OW's 'place' to do so! If she's been fed lie after lie and thinks the MM is a lying b*stard who should be made accountable, by all means do it, her opinion is as valid as anyone's. It might be the OW's place to do so if the MM lied to her about his marital status and she didn't know. Then YES, she has every right to do so. But if she knew he was married and was a part in helping him betray his wife and she was sleeping with another wife's husband KNOWINGLY, then no...it is not her place. Of course, she could in that case decide to try to make him feel guilty and low, which of course he should, but then she'd be a hypocrite.
Ripples Posted June 15, 2007 Posted June 15, 2007 Something like 'looking forward to the concert' or 'cocktails at the bar, roll on this evening', or etc etc-stuff like that....remember Cher in Clueless who used to send herself flowers and chocs to make herself look popular, lol, hehe...a very toned down version of that (-: Best idea yet! You could even take it a stage further: "[insert name here] thanks for the huge bunch of roses that I don't have a big enough vase to fit them in / thanks for the glorious evening watching the sun go down over the Carribean Sea / thanks for the love making session that has made me realise how rubbish all my other lovers were" etc. etc. etc.
Author Marielle Posted June 16, 2007 Author Posted June 16, 2007 It might be the OW's place to do so if the MM lied to her about his marital status and she didn't know. Then YES, she has every right to do so. But if she knew he was married and was a part in helping him betray his wife and she was sleeping with another wife's husband KNOWINGLY, then no...it is not her place. Of course, she could in that case decide to try to make him feel guilty and low, which of course he should, but then she'd be a hypocrite. Ok, Bic***, ooops Bish Unfortunately all you said is wrong, even thorically. To explain why is, first of all, going into my personal details, second, my english is not really good, and third it was not the point of the thread...it was more of a light subject such as: should I put in my profile "I had a grat night, thanks Bob" "or " i m soooo over you" or "I m having a Martini at such terrace"...to demonstrate I m notthinking of him (wich has been proved to be wrong -I chose SILENCE- Take it easy man, specially if I m trying to move on, no need to put my morals in the balance, relax!
Author Marielle Posted June 16, 2007 Author Posted June 16, 2007 Best idea yet! You could even take it a stage further: "[insert name here] thanks for the huge bunch of roses that I don't have a big enough vase to fit them in / thanks for the glorious evening watching the sun go down over the Carribean Sea / thanks for the love making session that has made me realise how rubbish all my other lovers were" etc. etc. etc. Lol, I like that, but he will KNOW it's not true...he's the one doing that "B**** is thinking where to go tonight" (yeah, it's that website, the addictive one that starts with an F. N=But I don t want to play his game, all I wanted was to feel bad for what he did and that I am moving on. That was all I wanted
GregsBad Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 it s all finished ... what sentence or message ... (to make him) feel little.. ...to show me as a superior person, with wisdom and that shows I moved on. ... PLease do not try to gime the : YOU have to be over him...beleive me that s what I am doing (and it s going really well) I just want to have my last words. Help me Girl, If you need help to make him feel little ... like you say ... Then you're not over him, like you claim! You're still all screwed up over him. So why not stop looking for help to put him down - if you're really over him?
Author Marielle Posted June 16, 2007 Author Posted June 16, 2007 Girl, If you need help to make him feel little ... like you say ... Then you're not over him, like you claim! You're still all screwed up over him. So why not stop looking for help to put him down - if you're really over him? Yeah, ok, you convinced meGregsBad, specially with your tone and language. You've got it, dude. Stupid me I did not realize I still had feelings for him, duh me:bunny:
bish Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 ;)Take it easy man, specially if I m trying to move on, Obviously not if you are wanting revenge.
GregsBad Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 OK You can't really say much to make him feel bad for being a cheater. He'll see through that. You can't say much to make him think you've moved on and don't miss him. He'll see through that too. Then how about something like this? Say, "You have a small penis." And say, "Now that it's over, I can stop trying to convince myself that size doesn't matter." .
BurriedAlive Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 Marielle - when I really get angry or am hurting over xMM, I sit down at my computer and write him letters that I don't send. It really helps me "dump" my feelings out and since he will never see what I wrote, he doesn't get the satisfaction of knowing how much he hurt me. If I look back to the letters I wrote a month ago and the ones I wrote recently, they are getting less and less angry with time!
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