waitingforlove Posted June 14, 2007 Posted June 14, 2007 Hi everyone, I have a question: Has anyone had an ex-bf who left her because she wanted to wait till marriage to have sex but he didn't want to wait? Do guys really leave girls because the girls want to remain a virgin till marriage?
Jack'a Posted June 14, 2007 Posted June 14, 2007 It's not unheard of... there is nothing wrong with not wanting sex until after the marriage, it's actually quite good that you value it and stick to what you believe in. There are guys out there who are exactly like you, you'll just have to wait! Sex is only a part of a relationship... not the foundation of it...
Road Rage Posted June 14, 2007 Posted June 14, 2007 Exact-A-Mundo Jack`a In fact, I would say a girl would be quicker to lose a guy who wanted to wait for marriage to have sex than vice versa.
Lizzie60 Posted June 15, 2007 Posted June 15, 2007 Hi everyone, I have a question: Has anyone had an ex-bf who left her because she wanted to wait till marriage to have sex but he didn't want to wait? Do guys really leave girls because the girls want to remain a virgin till marriage? but I would definitely leave a guy if he doesn't want to have sex before the marriage... Sex is too important... before you marry you want to see if you are compatible in every way... why not sexually... I really don't see the big deal in having sex before the marriage... in fact, I think it's rather dumb not to. It's like saying...OK, let's get to know each other, what are our goals for the future, our finances, do we want kids, blablabla... but I don't want to know if we are sexually compatible... it is ridiculous... I never understood the concept of 'keeping our virginity for the marriage'...
JoL Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 If he wants to have sex and you want to wait, it's just another type of sexual incompatibility. There's nothing wrong with wanting to wait until marriage, on the other hand there is nothing wrong with wanting a relationship where you can be sexually fulfilled. There is no right or wrong answer in these situations. If a person feels sex is important (which it can be) then I don't think there is anything wrong with being honest and ending a relationship because of it. It is much better for him to be upfront and admit he can't stay in the relationship, rather than lie and say he is okay with it and then go out and sleep with other women behind your back.
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