satori22 Posted June 14, 2007 Posted June 14, 2007 Hi, My boyfriend is very sick with cancer and is on the otherside of the world. The only way i have contact with him now is via email. Although he chose to go away and be by himself when he got sick, I know he is very lonely. I really want to be there for him and help him through this as much as possible. We know he will not make it, so it is not a matter of telling him to fight or anything like that. I just want to cheer him up, make him smile every now and then, and just let him know I am here and that I love him. He looks forward to my emails everyday so I am just looking for suggestions to make them fun and supportive and change it up a little every now and then. Any suggestions will be very much appreciated. Thanks. satori
InvisibleTouch Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 Hi Im very sorry for you both. It is difficult to know what makes a person laugh especially in such a tough situation like this. All I can offer is that you just keep writing to him telling him what is happening back home in your life. Try and make light of anything and everything. If you need support come here and chat.
lynn64 Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 I am so sorry to hear that both of you are dealing with this. It's very hard to not be able to do a whole lot, but just keep doing what you are doing. I am sure that him being able to read what you have written everyday is doing more for him than you even can know. Just tell him everything you have always wanted to say, hold nothing back, and keep your head up. You probably already do, but send him fun pictures of yourself and some of you and him if you have them. I'm sure that will help him think of the good times the two of you have had and put a smile on his face.
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