thelucky7star Posted June 14, 2007 Posted June 14, 2007 Hi everyone, Most of you know my story. I still haven't heard back from him to get his things. I went on the dating site that I met him on today just to see if he is using it and he is. I can't believe he is ready to date again and still won't put a closure to us. Any thoughts?? I feel so sick to my stomach.
norajane Posted June 14, 2007 Posted June 14, 2007 Put his 'things' in a box, drop them on his doorstep without talking to him, and drive away. Or throw them out. Or donate them to charity. It's time to put this behind you and start healing. He's not worth your time anymore.
passionpeach Posted June 14, 2007 Posted June 14, 2007 You know what... The same this happened to me. My man had problems then and he broke up with me while he left all of his things here at my house. It was so hard for me to still see them in my place so what I did was buy a big box of Winston cigarettes... hehehe... I placed all of his stuff there. I taped it. I wrote his name on the box in huge letters and I placed in by the front door to the left. When he finally got back to see how things are with me and to also get "some" of his clothes, he was so shocked that everything was all boxed already. You should listen to the song "irreplaceable" by beyonce knowles!
awayfromthesunagain Posted June 14, 2007 Posted June 14, 2007 They are right .. YOU should make the first step to erase him .. dont wait .. u might feel bad at first, but then relieved because it starts with so little things ...
Author thelucky7star Posted June 16, 2007 Author Posted June 16, 2007 You guys are right...I got all of his stuff together and put it in my trunk. I don't know if I should go put it on his doorstep though...I don't think he deserves that. It is just crazy!! I guess I am now finding out that he really is an ******* and not the man I fell in love with. It is going to be a while before I get myself into another relationship! This guy screwed up my heart....
funkybassplayer Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 my ex did the same, within a week of us breaking up she found a new fella from a dating site, and because of him i was'nt allowed contact with her kids that i loved and worked for for the last year and a half. Do what i did i put her stuff in the post, and it made me feel sad at first but because i took the step i felt like i took back control of my life, withiout the excuse of further contact. I feel that i got back some of my self respect by doing this act, and has helped me move on no end. Can you imagine when he comes home and see's his stuff on the doorstep? its like you saying to him, your dumped! get it out of your house and you will get him out of your life. Dont think about whats good for him, think whats good for you. The world is full of selfish uncaring jerks, and the quicker we see them for what they are, the sooner we will wast time thinking about them! Read goodby my lady, see what i got stuck with! I do miss the kids, but i feel that i have to forget about them now, and if they come into my life again, so be it.
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