sunnysideup1 Posted June 13, 2007 Posted June 13, 2007 I really don't understand this. I had obvious NC with a person because of incredibly hurtful things they did to me. I dated this person for 2 years and all along they were dating someone else, too. I ignored texts, blocked e-mail address, etc. and this happened for about 3 months. All of the sudden, I get a message from this person on MSN. Now, I have broken someone's heart in the past (not someone I dated, but someone that wanted to date me but whom I wasn't interested in) BUT I don't contact the person whose heart I broke out of respect for that person. I want that person to move on and I don't want to prevent them from doing it by popping into their life at random times. Don't you think that's only right? What's the point of contacting me if it's obvious I've been ignoring you and don't want you in my life? And messaging me and saying that they wanted to continue to talk to me. What's the point in this? It really just makes me feel incredibly hurt all over again. I would understand if this contact was done out of guilt and wanted to apologize but that didn't happen. Just popping in and asking what I'm doing and talking about chatting later which didn't happen. I don't get this.
Mary3 Posted June 13, 2007 Posted June 13, 2007 I agree with you 100% . That person caused pain and is now trying to contact you. Why ? Its more an ego trip I think. They know you had feelings. You are long gone. Now lets stir up the pot of malcontent.
passionpeach Posted June 13, 2007 Posted June 13, 2007 Well, it is really hard to judge what his intentions are and whatever that is, it sure is something that you have the least control off. What you can control though is your reaction to it. You can try to tell him that you do not like any contact with him. That way, you will set things clear to him. If he doesn't stop and you know that you cannot handle it since you will get hurt then just ignore him and continue moving on.
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