Green Posted June 16, 2007 Posted June 16, 2007 this is all hard to believe. just thinking of yourself here you must relize this can only lead to your own personal doom. Look you have to get a grip on reality block all these guys and set your profile to private, dont add any one you dont know and send me a link to your myspace because im really curious now who the godess of 9th grade is
Author McFadden Posted June 17, 2007 Author Posted June 17, 2007 I know, I don't think this is 100% my fault, its that first kid who gave my screen name to his friends. Plus he told them we have a relationship and we don't, and I've told him that. I don't get how I'm going to get caught up in some kind of scandal and go to jail. I haven't so much as laid a hand on these little pervs. I personally don't think I've even said anything I shouldn't have, the kid is the one who did. I only replied a year in 7 months and I don't think anyone can shake a stick at that, I was just informing him what the laws are in some states. I mean obviously they are hot in thier uniforms and have that whole forbidden Catholic school boy thing going on but that is NOT unusual, its an entire genre pretty much. Anyone who says its unheard of is completely oblivious. I mean search on the internet there are thousands of middle aged people writing porn about Harry Potter. As long as one isn't crossing the line with actual minors I don't think its a big deal.
soulseeker Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 Hey McFadden, you ever think about the fact that if you did do something with this kid and legal action was taken against you, they would most likely search your computer and read this whole damn thread. Since you're into MySpace and all, and he's passed that information out. Nice.
Trialbyfire Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 So...do you now still believe this fourteen year-old boy is ready for a mature physical relationship?
Author McFadden Posted June 17, 2007 Author Posted June 17, 2007 Nope. I always figured it was a bad idea, otherwise I would have gone right out there and got me some of that instead of posting on a forum lamenting the whole situation. Luckily my ex has starting wreaking havoc on my life again and it has consumed my attention, so the boys can run free.
Trialbyfire Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 Nope. I always figured it was a bad idea, otherwise I would have gone right out there and got me some of that instead of posting on a forum lamenting the whole situation. Luckily my ex has starting wreaking havoc on my life again and it has consumed my attention, so the boys can run free. McFadden, this is the type of comment that makes this thread so controversial. It's a game of baiting.
Author McFadden Posted June 17, 2007 Author Posted June 17, 2007 McFadden, this is the type of comment that makes this thread so controversial. It's a game of baiting. I noticed that it keeps getting controversial, but that last comment, about the boys running free, I didn't even think about it at the time or mean to say anything controversial. Part of the problem is I don't even grasp what is controversial about it (nor do I grasp why anyone thought it was offensive that I mentioned having a sexual relationship with someone in a year and 7 months when it is legal.) With the group of people I talk to every day everyone is very eccentric and taboo subjects are joked about a lot even when no one is serious. I picked up a certain way of talking and it seems like I can never turn it off sometimes. I apologize if anyone was offended, I have done nothing against the boys and am not planning to.
MarinaAquamarina Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 I don't understand if you actually fancy him or not? I don't think you've mentioned one way or the other. If you don't, surely this whole thread is completely pointless? If a guy your own age asked you out and you didn't fancy him, you wouldn't go out of pity, so why go out of pity with someone younger? I kind of have a mixed view on the age gap. My ex was nine years older than me and we met when I was 15. We didn't get together until I was 16, though, so didn't break the law, and stayed together for two years...up until recently when I discovered he'd been cheating on me with a friend. But anyway, I digress. Loads of people thought it was sick and wrong, but we were genuinely in love, and it lasted for a long time. The thing I don't get, McFadden, is when you implied earlier that you'd want to do something with him because he's so young. that's a bit odd...my boyfriend didn't fall for me because I was so young, if anything it was a bad point! He fell for me for who I am, not my age...
Lishy Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 I have to say that I have never fantasised about a boy in a catholic school uniform (or any unifor come to that) McFadden you are sick sick sick! Your comments are not dry, they are sick! Get councelling!
Trialbyfire Posted June 17, 2007 Posted June 17, 2007 I noticed that it keeps getting controversial, but that last comment, about the boys running free, I didn't even think about it at the time or mean to say anything controversial. Part of the problem is I don't even grasp what is controversial about it (nor do I grasp why anyone thought it was offensive that I mentioned having a sexual relationship with someone in a year and 7 months when it is legal.) With the group of people I talk to every day everyone is very eccentric and taboo subjects are joked about a lot even when no one is serious. I picked up a certain way of talking and it seems like I can never turn it off sometimes. I apologize if anyone was offended, I have done nothing against the boys and am not planning to. I guess children are my sensitivity for assorted reasons. I have nephews who are within a couple of years of this and it bothers me to think that an adult would view them in this manner, regardless of their brashness in later years.
Author McFadden Posted June 18, 2007 Author Posted June 18, 2007 I have to say that I have never fantasised about a boy in a catholic school uniform (or any unifor come to that) McFadden you are sick sick sick! Your comments are not dry, they are sick! Get councelling! Thats where I think some people have gone to far and I'm going to have to agree to disagree. If the police want to hunt down and prosecute everyone in this country who has looked at material involving people in school like uniforms, good luck to them because its probably over a billion people.
cutegirl Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 I don't feel bad for saying "no", to any guy, I usually say it confidently and with no regrets. It certainly is my right to say no to whoever I want. Why should I feel bad? I don't fall sorry for people easily. Usually I might be harsh but if it's a kid I would just say no nicely but FIRMLY. People these days are just too concerned about "hurting other people's feelings", especially women. I feel like most women are too conditioned to be nice and all that crap. I don't buy into that. How hard can it to say no? I do it all the time. You just have to be FIRM, and delete them off your myspace and totally block and ignore them, ignore their messages or just delete your entire myspace page. Just block them completely. If they instant message you just block their messages. Everyone who bugs me gets blocked, I don't even think twice about it. Jeez. Don' talk to any of these young boys, ignore them all!! Block them all. You should be doing something more productive than talking to kids. My time is worth a lot of money, I don't like to waste it on grown men let alone kids. Don't tell them you are going to block them. They don't need an explanation. Just block them and never talk to them again. That's what I do when I don't want to talk to someone.
Author McFadden Posted June 18, 2007 Author Posted June 18, 2007 Yeah..I look good in pigtails in my opinion. Yeah I admit heartily that when I started the thread I was being deceiving about my motives. If I didn't have any curiousity I wouldn't have had to think about it. I admit I still talking to the first kid, but he likes a girl that is his age and he has told me about it so I think he is over the whole thing. I don't see a lot of harm..I get along with him and we are into the same stuff in spite of the age gap so I don't see why I should not be friends with him, we have talked about going to a concert together (as friends). I spend too much of my free time chatting on AIM, playing computer games and on forums like this by the way. Probably not the most productive thing to be doing but my time is only worth 7.50$ an hour anyway.
torranceshipman Posted June 18, 2007 Posted June 18, 2007 McFadden, I'm a teacher, and I am horrified by what you are writing. If one of these boys discussed with me, or a colleague, that they were involved in this type of situation with a 19yr old, I'd be incredibly concerned. I would make an issue of the matter, as would other teachers. This is not me overreacting - this is me feeling responsible for the wellbeing of my students...kids of 14 are KIDS and adults should NEVER view them as sexually available. Electric Sheep - I can see you are pushing for an intellectual debate here, but no amount of theorizing can change the fact that 14yr olds existing in todays' society are just kids and should NOT ever be looked at as potential sexual partners - it's teachers, social workers, counsellors, parents, etc that will be left trying to clear up the damage if someone pursues these kids. To you its a theory to debate, relating to the wider issues in society...to me it is reality, and these kids are in the classroom every day, and their well being is very important to me. By the way McFadden, I don't believe for a second that you are a 19yr old girl. I think you are grooming these kids, and are quite possibly a much older male, and I find this whole thread very disturbing.
johan Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 I don't feel bad for saying "no", to any guy, I usually say it confidently and with no regrets. It certainly is my right to say no to whoever I want. Why should I feel bad? I don't fall sorry for people easily. Usually I might be harsh but if it's a kid I would just say no nicely but FIRMLY. Do you usually wait for them to start talking to you, or do you just go for it?
lonelybird Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Children molests will burn in hell, not try to scare someone. but maybe a psychologist can help them to remove the guilty, well that only works on this earthly life, but after death....too terrible but still they can repent
txwildorchid Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Whats the right thing to do in this situation? I obviously am not going to have any relationship with this little kid but I feel bad if he really tries to ask me on a date and I say no. So what I'm asking is how bad is it if I go on a date with this little kid just to be nice? Is it creepy? And does it seem like his intentions are impure? I don't want the moves getting put on me by a 14 year old (awww.) Well maybe I don't mind but the laws in this state wouldn't like it! What do I do? Uhhh, hello! Would you want to go to jail for this little kid? I'd say think about that one...too many times has it happened!
txwildorchid Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 How do you think that his mother would react to something like that? The reason I'm asking is b/c, I am a mother of a 14 yr old. I would not like it at all & I would see to it that you would be held responsible.
Author McFadden Posted June 19, 2007 Author Posted June 19, 2007 By the way McFadden, I don't believe for a second that you are a 19yr old girl. I think you are grooming these kids, and are quite possibly a much older male, and I find this whole thread very disturbing. Wtf is this shyt about me being an older male? I guess you didn't even read my post? Lol.
electric_sheep Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 So I think its that aspect of having control over a few people, I have to admit I've fantasized about getting them to steal a van with me and make for the hills, then start like a boy farm. These boys could go into surrounding villages and recruit more boys for me. This would make for an amazing film. Nobody in Hollywood would make it, so it would have to be an independent film, or even better yet a French film. You guys could hide out in the Pyrenees and make friends with the Basques. Maybe I'll join you, and start to lure Catholic school girls up into the mountains, till we have an entire adolescent army at our whim.
electric_sheep Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 I nominate this for the most hysterically paranoid statement in this thread: I don't believe for a second that you are a 19yr old girl. I think you are grooming these kids, and are quite possibly a much older male, and I find this whole thread very disturbing. Imagine the shock on this poor fellas face when they finally meet! And this I nominate for the saddest, and most grammatically incorrect: Children molests will burn in hell, not try to scare someone. Ahh, the internet... gotta love it. The entire panorama of human existance in all it's embarrassing clarity. McFadden probably hasn't had this much fun pushing peoples buttons in quite some time.
torranceshipman Posted June 19, 2007 Posted June 19, 2007 Whatever. Like I said, I'm a teacher and someone has to be vigilant, so sicko's who talk about 'farming teenage boys' on the 'net aren't going to get a good reception from me.
Author McFadden Posted June 20, 2007 Author Posted June 20, 2007 Torranceshipman, I realize that I have expressed some offensive thoughts in this thread, but what bothered me is the fact that you said you don't believe I am a 19 year old girl and I must be an older man. It sounded like you assume that all people with pedophilic tendancies must be old men. That generalization is not true and offensive to men. There's no basis here to believe I'm not who I said I am. In my opinion it would be a worse situation if it were an older person, who was grooming children and there was no reason to believe that was going on. I believe the person who posted about child molesters burning in hell is not a native English speaker so lets not make fun, I still understand thier point. Anyway on a more productive note I really like that idea about the independent film. I'm actually going into film school and one of my friends is a screenwriter, so we might put that idea into motion at some point, maybe as a student project of something...don't know how well that would go over considering people aren't going to be comfortable with me around child actors, so I guess little people can play the children. It will add to the whole artsy, surreal tone. Anyway I'll keep you updated.
lonelybird Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 I believe the person who posted about child molesters burning in hell is not a native English speaker so lets not make fun, I still understand thier point. . Thanks for not make fun of my English language:). and Please leave young children alone, as for 14 y/o boy, you should care them like a sister, not have sex with them.
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