SOS_Please Posted June 12, 2007 Posted June 12, 2007 ...and yes it's what you're thinking... I have waited 21 years to have sex, because I have always believed I would be married before I participated in the act. However, I no longer believe in the institution of marriage, so I want to have sex...NOW! 21 years of pent up energy is about ready to explode! I can wait no longer, and I need some tips for what guys like during sex! Seriously. I have no idea of what to do with a guy--well, except what I have seen in some porns that I've walked in on in college. LOL! I need help! TIPS! What to wear, what to do, how to act, etc! I really appreciate it!
hagi990 Posted June 12, 2007 Posted June 12, 2007 from what i've heard it's not very pleasurable the first time a girl has sex. As a guy i would say wearing some sexy underwear is always good and I always think passion is great. most important thing is communication, say keep doing that if you like it or how do you want me when you think you want to change the position. If he's a man he'll guide you for most of it. Oh it's always sexy for partners to take each others clothes off. My gf at current says she's never found a guy who didn't like a tounge in the ear. She does it to me and it gets my motor going. Get your tounge lashing in the ear and he'll be pinning you down tearing your clothes off.
Author SOS_Please Posted June 13, 2007 Author Posted June 13, 2007 Oh it's always sexy for partners to take each others clothes off. My gf at current says she's never found a guy who didn't like a tounge in the ear. She does it to me and it gets my motor going. Get your tounge lashing in the ear and he'll be pinning you down tearing your clothes off. Oh my God...this so hot. Tongue in the ear, huh? Yeah, I can see that being a turn on. Now as for a tongue in the eye... ...really? LOL, I can't say that sounds "hot" to me. Are you serious when you say that? Hey, if you are: I'll give it a go.
Storyrider Posted June 13, 2007 Posted June 13, 2007 ...and yes it's what you're thinking... I have waited 21 years to have sex, Are you saying you're currently 21, or that you've waited 21 years since sex was first an option?
Author SOS_Please Posted June 13, 2007 Author Posted June 13, 2007 Are you saying you're currently 21, or that you've waited 21 years since sex was first an option? Haha, yeah...I am currently 21. So, I know, I know: sex has only been an option for a few years. I am in heat, or something...I SWEAR! It is HORRIBLE! I can't even concentrate on anything: work, school, etc. LOL, it's sad and debilitating, actually.
holuxgis Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 I'm almost thinking that, given your current state of being "in heat" as you call it; everything should come easy. Going by the way you're describing your "urges", I think if you just let everything go, and relax, your passion and natural libido will take over. Don't be too disappointed if it doesn't turn out the way you had hoped for. The first time isn't always the greatest for some. Just please keep in mind, don't let "everything go" too much. Make sure the guy is at least half decent and respectable .
Aussie65 Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 In heat you say? hahahha you go girl! what can I say...you have some catching up to do just let it happen naturally.
Sheba Posted June 20, 2007 Posted June 20, 2007 In heat? Wow! I hope the lucky guy is deserving of your pent up energy. Is it someone you care about a lot and trust? I will try to be helpful, now that I have put my "motherly" question to you. First of all, make sure that you have birth control and a comfortable and private space for this event. A hotel room if needed. Someplace where you won't be disturbed. Someplace with a shower handy. Secondly, buy pretty underwear. Men do seem to like that, and what is more, it will make you feel good. It is not all about him, you know. Thirdly be very very clean. Have a shower and wash extra well immediately before the grand event. I hope he does the same. Fourthly, take your time. Be prepared for some discomfort. Assuming that he is also young and eager, you might want to try your hand (or something) at getting him off before you attempt to go further, so as to allow him a little more self control. Fifthly, femember you can change your mind. If you feel hurt or worried, you can practice some other type of sex besides the full meal deal, but you should do even that only if you want to. You don't owe it to him to go all the way, and if he is a decent loving man he will understand if you decide part way through that you want to put it off another week or month. Hope that helps! And don't forget the birth control!
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