Outofluck Posted June 12, 2007 Posted June 12, 2007 Many of you out there might have some indication of what I am referring to... I check this damn profile at least three or four times a day to find out what she is up to etc... Though she has a private profile (I'm probably glad about that) I can find her posts on many of her friends and family members public ones..I know that she has moved on and has a new guy and judging by the comments on the other profiles that she has left, she is happy...my favorite (to her niece): "Thanks for coming with us last night..isn't XXXXXXX great??!!!" Talk about a nail through the heart..ouch! Anyhow, I found a way to block any access to myspace on my computer and have taken the necessary steps. Obviously, I can undo it but I don't plan on it as it is too much work. It has been a few weeks of NC for us and I just feel like such a loser sitting at home checking up on her while she is out living her life to the fullest.
AriaIncognito Posted June 12, 2007 Posted June 12, 2007 Did you block yourself from accessing all of myspace or just your exes profile? I actually was trying to block myself from my ex's profile but didn't find any way except to block the entire site, which I dont want because I have 122 other people on my list that i'd want to talk to lol
Author Outofluck Posted June 12, 2007 Author Posted June 12, 2007 I don't have an account so I just blocked the whole damn thing...I figured that it was for the best if you want to block just one account there is a way.. http://www.theparentsedge.com/Block_Myspace.html Should help..just insert your ex's myspace page (www.myspace.com/exsname)
New Hope Posted June 12, 2007 Posted June 12, 2007 its best u stop looking at her myspace, what she does is no longer ur business and what u do is no longer her business....Move On...........
passionpeach Posted June 12, 2007 Posted June 12, 2007 You should start doing something else. Keep yourself busy so that your attention will be diverted from your ex's myspace account. You are just stabbing yourself again and again by doing that. Love yourself man. Move on. Be happy. Get a new hobby. Go out with your friends. Do not stay at home to much and sulk on your bitterness about your ex. It will not help. There is a lot happening in that big world out there that is just waiting for you.
Mustang Sally Posted June 12, 2007 Posted June 12, 2007 I think you are just hurting. Was this breakup recent? Even if it wasn't really recent, you need more time to get over her. That is nothing to be ashamed of, and everyone has their own pace for healing after a relationship has ended. I think it was a positive step you took to block yourself from the website. But don't put too much pressure on yourself to move on, otherwise. I think sometimes, that just makes the (usually, inevitable) momentary relapses that much more difficult when they come. This, too, shall pass. (Meaning the wise saying, not the LS poster!) Take care.
Je Ne Regrette Rien Posted June 12, 2007 Posted June 12, 2007 I just want to add Myspace can be used as a platform for telling people that "Isn't life great" I know I'm guilty of banging on about how wonderful my Saturday night was when I was actually sat in the house doing nothing. Hey, it was a dark moment and I didnt want others to see how boring my life had become. The point is - dont take too much to heart from Myspace, I think the writers all have the fantasy in the back of their mind of who might be viewing it. I know I do...
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