Author hotgurl Posted June 12, 2007 Author Posted June 12, 2007 A4A I think your right that he sometimes doesn't have empathy which is hard for me since my daughter and I are extremely empathatic. I actually think about how my actions effect others. He gets defensive about everything. I could be something little I bring up and he totally gets defensive. and at this point I am kinda glad we are not married. I want to go live in a cave somewher for a couple days. I would also kill for a good nigths sleep. I think my problem is that is am too nice and soft spoken. I hate comfrontation. I grew up in a house with a lot of confrontation and if you fought back things just get worse so my first impluse is to leave.
Author hotgurl Posted June 13, 2007 Author Posted June 13, 2007 So we had a long convo last night and hashed things out. He finally got it! Also I think one issue that came out was that I feel that we are growing apart. We are so busy and have no time to oursleves. we hardely do anything together that doesn't involve fixing the house or my daughter.
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