passionpeach Posted June 11, 2007 Posted June 11, 2007 My current boyfriend's ex-girlfriend wants to take some of the stuff that she gave my guy when they were still together. They have this Care Bears stuff toy collection which she gave to my boyfriend when they broke up. When my man and I ended up together, He gave me the entire collection as he as no place to put all the toys. So I kept all of them in my room. Now the ex-girlfriend wants them back saying that it is hers and also wants the heart-shaped pillow which she also gave my guy when they were still on. It may sound silly but I am really confused if i will give her the stuff or not. Why does she want them all now when they gave them away in the first place? That collection does not mean much to me though I still do not know if it is right for her to take them back now that they are over.
curiousnycgirl Posted June 11, 2007 Posted June 11, 2007 Very ridiculous - you have two choices here. Either give them back to her - which is probably the easiest. Or tell her to speak with him. The second is probably the more correct option - but watch out it may cause drama.
Author passionpeach Posted June 11, 2007 Author Posted June 11, 2007 That is one of the things that I find very funny. Because it looks like she just wants to get them back to seek his attention or use those stuff so that my guy will talk to her again. I saw her text messages to my guy and she tends to be really caring nowadays though my guy does not reply to the messages she sends. My confusion lies on "why now"? She was able to let go of all those things when they parted. Now that the guy has me as his girl, why does she all of a sudden want to get her stuff back? I can give it all to her that is no problem but if her intentions of getting them is to gain my man's attention then that will be another story. What do you think?
upsetnhurt Posted June 11, 2007 Posted June 11, 2007 Put them in a fed ex box and ship them to her. Do not let him give them to her in person as you are right....she is using this as a way to get to him. Let him know that this should be the last time he needs to speak to her again and to make sure he alerts her of such.
Author passionpeach Posted June 11, 2007 Author Posted June 11, 2007 That is a nice idea. I might do just that! But I really do not want her to think that I am being rude to her or anything else for that matter. I just do not like a complicated story as what may happen in case my intuition is correct. We do not have anything to argue about anymore anyway.
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