Do we have any control whatsoever over who we are physically attracted to?

[halfarock]

I think I know you, too.

 

But you weren't in my dreams.

 

Please refresh my memory....is it Casanova or Don Juan?

from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Don_Juan

Others, however, see Don Juan as a man who genuinely loves every woman he seduces, and it is his gift to see the true beauty and intrinsic value which exist within every woman.

[Mary3]

The real problem for me is that I've always been able to be attracted to LOTS of women...at the same time. When you meet someone special, all that other stuff is supposed to turn off. In my case it only gets in the way. How are you supposed to get a meaningful relationship off the ground if everytime you go to the mall, the beach, downtown, a restaurant or wherever...you get turned on to other females? I know women hate guys like this but MOST guys ARE like this. They just don't talk about it.

 

It would be nice to be able to control this.

 

Only a blindfold would help ....as men are visual...all the way

[aklay]

Im just jumping in on this thread here but I do agree that no matter how much you like a person sometimes you will not be physically attracted to them. One of the reasons my first relationship ended was because the thought of being physically intimate was uncomfortable to me.