tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 I need help quick! Their is only one more week of school before summer is here. I really like this girl and cannot stop thinking about her. She is intelligent, beautiful(I dont think that she thinks that she is very cute) and very shy/reserved. I have PE and English class with her and I can talk to her OK, and when I do she laughs but then she doesn't engaage in converstation. I can't tell if she is just extremely shy, whether she likes me(she does glance over at me in English every once in a while) or whether I disgust her. She is always with one of her friends and I want to tell her that I like her and I want to hang out in the summer but I dont quiet know how. Please help!! One more week.
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 Ask her to be the first one to sign your yearbook and tell her if she wants to put her number then you'd love to call her over the summer. If she gives you her number then let her know that now you don't need any more people to sign.
Author tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Author Posted June 10, 2007 I think that would come off too strong and maybe frighten her
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 Women like strong men who go after what they want. But remember to leave it up to her if she chooses to give her number or not. And respect her decision.
Author tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Author Posted June 10, 2007 If she says she doesnt like me or whatever I can deal with it there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 Exactly. But you gotta go after it if that's what you want. Which you probably do or you wouldn't be stressing about it. If you don't try you may wish you had. And IMO that's worse than rejection anyday.
Author tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Author Posted June 10, 2007 IMO? I'm sorry i dont text that often
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 in my opinion... but of course it is. Everything I write is my opinion. So it was kind of stupid to put it there in the first place.
Author tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Author Posted June 10, 2007 By the way I will be going to the same high school as her, but I do want to tell her now. On to the next point, If she does get freaked out and gets embarassed , how will I deal with the extreme akwardness for the next 4 years between her and her friends(some of which are my friends)
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 You're only in 8th grade?? Then have one of your friends ask her out for you. There's safety in numbers so don't go it alone. This way if she rejects you then you can have your friends make her feel bad too by making fun of her for the next four years.
Author tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Author Posted June 10, 2007 2 things.:How old did you think i was, and why would they make fun fun of her(she is too nice to make fun of)
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 2 things.:How old did you think i was, and why would they make fun fun of her(she is too nice to make fun of) I don't know how old I thought you were. 16 or 17 maybe. Anyway maybe she thinks that you're too nice to take crap for four years all because you like her. Are there any parties coming up? You can always ask her if she's going to a party you know you're going to. And take it from there.
Author tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Author Posted June 10, 2007 I think im going to a graduation party wth my friend next saturday, should I ask her to go to the party and the talk to her there
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 Yeah bring up the party. I wouldn't ask her to go but I would ask her if she's going.
Author tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Author Posted June 10, 2007 The party is for all of the kids who went a specific elementary school, and she went to mine. What if she isn't going
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 The party is for all of the kids who went a specific elementary school, and she went to mine. What if she isn't going Then you can tell her you were really hoping she was going. And you can find out why she's not going too...something to talk about. But she's probably going. And if she does go then you can see her there and see how it goes. Maybe she's into someone else or maybe she's into you. But when you bring it up then she knows you are interested but it doesn't make you look stupid if she's not. Because you never asked her out really. But you did show an interest.
Author tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Author Posted June 10, 2007 So, what if I show intrest{I am not trying to be sarcastic} towards her. Then what happens if she can't go, should I ask her phone number?
amaysngrace Posted June 10, 2007 Posted June 10, 2007 So, what if I show intrest{I am not trying to be sarcastic} towards her. Then what happens if she can't go, should I ask her phone number? It's good to show an interest because it lets her know you think more of her than just a friend. See if she seems happy that you show an interest before you ask her if you can call her sometime if she isn't going to the party. If she seems weird or offish about it then don't. Trust your gut.
Author tonyxlin Posted June 10, 2007 Author Posted June 10, 2007 Thanks a LOT for your advise!!. I really apreciate it I'll think about it and I post again in about 18hrs(kind of random, but is 1 oclock in San Diego)
Author tonyxlin Posted June 11, 2007 Author Posted June 11, 2007 I found out that the party is cancelled. What can I do!!
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