Ghawam15 Posted June 9, 2007 Posted June 9, 2007 So yah this is my story. I first met my friend Cynthia, we've been friends for 3 years. I met her in a cab and we didnt start out to well, we kinda fought until 8th grade and we became great friends, she said to me tht most of the guys she had met were total jerks( this was strange due to i new some of these guys) Then i found out she lives in the same neighborhood as me. So yah we become friends we talk and we pass notes in class like almost everyday. She told me in one note tht i was the most normal guy she ever met, i felt pretty good, and then in 9th grade i dont no wht happened but it changed. we still hang out but we never went to each others houses. So yah i start seeing her hang out with this senior, i see her with him once. and then out of the blue he becomes her boyfriend. i mean i didnt mind it at first but i became jealous. I didnt no wht to do so i did something stupid i attacked her boyfriend with a card board robot. yeah real stupid of me.... to make matters worse i hadnt seen her online on im for awhile so i asked one of her friends if she has an new username. so he gives it to me and i pose as another person with a diff username. Stupidest thing i ever done after 30 min she calls me and is crying on the phone and tells me" ur mean.." and she hangs up. right then and there i feel like **** and i ***ing hate myself. So then she talks to me on aim and asks me why i did this and then i spilled my guts there and she said she didnt like me tht way. I felt more like **** after tht. So yah after graduation she breaks up with her boyfriend since he's leaving and tells me she never having a boyfriend during high skool. So yah i go on with life and then during tenth grade something happens. I try asking her out to homecoming as friends but she says no and says she never wants to go to dances again and asks me to never ask her tht again. So yah after tht for like months i try to hang out with her some more and then this bombshell ****s in my pants. She tells me on aim tht this guy peter(hes a dousche) asked her out and she said yes. i ask her y tell me this? she tells me because im her friend. So yah he dates her and i fauking pissed because she lied to me. So i try gettin advice from my friends but it doesnt wrk. i like her alot because shes like the first girl who became my friend and she understands me. When i tried asking her out when she was with peter she said peter was already dating her and she was smiling as w walked bak ti her friends. plz any body plz help me with my problem wht should i do, i feel like ***ing ****!!! anybody!!!!!:(
ConfusedButLoved Posted June 9, 2007 Posted June 9, 2007 Hunny how old are you? I'm guessing you're still in school right? Listen and listen very closely! 3 things.... 1) SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU LIKE A BOYFRIEND 2) QUIT STALKING HER and last but not least... 3) This kind of stuff happens all the time to alot of people. We all (even us adults) have fallen for people who will never feel the same about us. It's called life and yes it blow's but there is nothing we can do about. You can't make someone like you. My suggestion is to just leave her alone and make some new friends.
Author Ghawam15 Posted June 9, 2007 Author Posted June 9, 2007 Ive tried but shes stuck in the bak of my mind idk wht i shoukd do to stop it and im not stalking her!!
ConfusedButLoved Posted June 9, 2007 Posted June 9, 2007 Ive tried but shes stuck in the bak of my mind idk wht i shoukd do to stop it and im not stalking her!! You don't do anything, you just move on. Thats that. There is no special mind cure that will take someone out of you're thoughts except get really involved in school or take up guitar lessons. Find something to fill you're time. It really isn't complicated, you just move on. It's part of life and growing up.
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