ashybeans6 Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 Maybe I am taking this situation a bit too far, but I would love some advice from other people wohm have maybe been put into this situation. I have been dating a man for about a year now and we just moved into a house together in November. When I first met him he told me about his ex-girlfrend and that they were still friends. I accept this at first because she lived in Ohio, 5-6 hours away from where we live. She wanted to visit "us" last July, but decided not to because of personal issues. I asked the man I am involved with if he would re-develop any feelings toward this woman and he said he might and he might not! Hurt as I was, I kinda forgot about it and moved on. I also noticed one day he was checking his emails and he has a folder dedicated to this woman. He told me one day he was going to delete it, but wasn't sure how to. This man is VERY computer smart, and is playing stupid. They still email eachother every so often, and call eachother. I did read an email recently and found out she is getting married in July. My guy had obviously read it and seemed upset by this. He told me about his friend getting married, and I asked him if it bothered him. All he said was that he thought she is making a HUGE mistake. So here I am..he denies any feelings toward her, but I still think there is something obviously there. PLEASE HELP!
DOA Posted June 9, 2007 Posted June 9, 2007 This sounds so fishy. I personally would not put up with this. And harsh and rash as it sounds, I'd probably up and leave because I don't want to be plagued by insecurities and suspicion knowing they probably could not be quenched by anything he said after reading those emails.
BlueEyedSarah Posted June 9, 2007 Posted June 9, 2007 Maybe I am taking this situation a bit too far, but I would love some advice from other people wohm have maybe been put into this situation. I have been dating a man for about a year now and we just moved into a house together in November. When I first met him he told me about his ex-girlfrend and that they were still friends. I accept this at first because she lived in Ohio, 5-6 hours away from where we live. She wanted to visit "us" last July, but decided not to because of personal issues. I asked the man I am involved with if he would re-develop any feelings toward this woman and he said he might and he might not! Hurt as I was, I kinda forgot about it and moved on. I also noticed one day he was checking his emails and he has a folder dedicated to this woman. He told me one day he was going to delete it, but wasn't sure how to. This man is VERY computer smart, and is playing stupid. They still email eachother every so often, and call eachother. I did read an email recently and found out she is getting married in July. My guy had obviously read it and seemed upset by this. He told me about his friend getting married, and I asked him if it bothered him. All he said was that he thought she is making a HUGE mistake. So here I am..he denies any feelings toward her, but I still think there is something obviously there. PLEASE HELP! Erm...in risk of getting hurt by this guy I would leave him. Like the above poster said "it sounds fishy"...I agree!
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