Cyndik003 Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 Ok here goes. I'm a 20 yo female, dating a 21 yo male. we started to get serious in December of 06 to where we were hanging out every day and text messaging, etc. Then he asked me out on New Year's. We have been dating ever since. And living together since the end of Jan. Now he didnt work for about 3 months, and we just lived off savings and such b/c i am in school. And we lived with roommates, so it wasnt just us per se. Well, we recently moved into a place of our own about a week ago, and are having furniture delivered today. Ever since he started this job (as a manager of a subway store) he has been acting strange. However,he also tells me he is tired and its been really hard for him starting on at a Subway where they dont hire managers outside of the store... They usually promote within, and for his first 30 days, he cant tell anyone he is a manager, So he is ending his frist week there today. here is the problem He seems really distant, and therefore I get really insecure. Last night a girl from his work texted him asking if he was thinking about her, and he swore up and down that he didnt give his number out to anyone and that it was probably just someone from work wanting to switch a shift or something, and that she got his number from the call listed posted at work. Well, i asked the girl who she was and reminded her that he had a gf and then she stopped messing around... But anyway, things just seem different. Am I blowing things out of proportion and putting too much stress on him? Could it just be the stress of work and the stress of the financial situation? Or should I be worried? I find myself reading into every little detail in his text messages like a message that says I love you, and love ya in the same message, or going nuts wondering if he really had to stay that hour and a half late to make party subs... Last night we were talking about his family camping trip and how it was a "we" thing, and he wanted me to come, and today I'm going with him to his brothers high school graduation. Yesterday was a wreck. I know I made a mistake of bombarding him with questions and wanting reassurances... immature and bad, I know. Do you think a relationship can overcome this? How do i get rid of the gnawing pain in my stomach? I just want to be back to normal. Thanks for any and all help! I truly appreciate it.
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