lovely01 Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 hi yall i need some advice . as you all know my husband had an affair back in november. so now his friend is getting married and they are having a bachlor party at a damn strip club. my problem is he gets mad when i say how am i soppoed to trust you. dont i have a damn reason he did this to me. what should i do let him go or not please help
Lizzie60 Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 hi yall i need some advice . as you all know my husband had an affair back in november. so now his friend is getting married and they are having a bachlor party at a damn strip club. my problem is he gets mad when i say how am i soppoed to trust you. dont i have a damn reason he did this to me. what should i do let him go or not please help that going to the bachelor party will make him cheat again... trust me if he really wants to cheat he will... strip club or not. If you keep putting the A on his nose every time he wants to do something, I don,t think it will work very long.
Sheba Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 I think you should let him go right out of the marriage. He had an affair. As a result, you have a problem trusting him. Now he is mad at YOU for having a problem trusting him? He should be mad at himself for creating that problem. I find it very ironic that people who breach trust get mad when they are no longer trusted.
silktricks Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 hi yall i need some advice . as you all know my husband had an affair back in november. so now his friend is getting married and they are having a bachlor party at a damn strip club. my problem is he gets mad when i say how am i soppoed to trust you. dont i have a damn reason he did this to me. what should i do let him go or not please help I know that it will be difficult for you, but I'd not worry about it if I were you. A strip club and an affair don't really have any relationship to each other. (unless of course he met his affair partner at a strip club??) Be wary of stopping (or attempting to stop) him from doing too many of the things his friends expect him to do. If you embarass him or make him appear hen-pecked, you will not have either a happy husband, or a happy marriage.
Author lovely01 Posted June 8, 2007 Author Posted June 8, 2007 thanks for the advice. his affair was with a co worker. met after work in a bar. i am just scared hes going to do it again.
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