nefermu Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 We know each other for more than 6 years and we had a good relationship for 2.5 years. We have never had a space or big arguement or fight each other before. We were great like the first dates of dating 2 weeks ago. However, we had some problems previous week and on sunday when I called here to solve these problems. She told me that she doesnt feel like when we started. She said that she needs some space, this is not my fault, it was her etc.. She was crying when telling those, and I was tryin to comfort her. It was a little weird for me. I tall here I can call her at night to say goodbye (she was going to a bussiness trip tomorrow). However I didnt call here. It passed 5 days with NC during that time I talked to her best friend and she said that she couldnt understand her too, she looks confused and depressed. Many of my friends suggest to talk face to face. Breaking up should not be done on phone etc. She had never informed about that her love is decreases etc. I am really shocked bcs I didnt expect that.So what should I do know ? talk to her face to face ? or not . I need women perspective please.
Lizzie60 Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 you need to sit down with her and ask her to be straightforward with you.. no BS... if she doesn't love you anymore or found someone else... she should be 'man' enough to tell you in your face... and if you think that she can't do that, tell her to write it... sometimes it is easier to write our emotions that talk about it. Sorry but it doesn't look good.
Author nefermu Posted June 8, 2007 Author Posted June 8, 2007 actually she sound like she didnt love me much anymore. She said our relation is look like a job.
Lizzie60 Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 actually she sound like she didnt love me much anymore. She said our relation is look like a job. then...if it's such a big sacrifice for her... just let her go... move on.
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