hagi990 Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 OK So my newest gf of 3 months, we've hit some major problems and my last relationships ended around this time aswell. One gf said I was too Clingy and this one has just told me i'm oblivious to her sometimes and take her for granted. I cant win! I feel sick that i can't seem to get it right. I really don't want to loose this one but I guess i'm going to. I just feel it's a constant struggle to please her and when I don't then she gets in a mood. I don't know what to do, could it be that i'm fun at the start of a realationship and then I get comfortable and thats when all the problems start?
Bedazzled Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 This is only my opinion, all woman are different. Most woman are very affectionate, love hugs and cuddles (which men sometimes see as being clingy) - that's just the way we are made. However, you do get some really clingy woman out there that won't even let there men breath - Hope you didn't have one of them Maybe what you should look at is how you treated her in the beginning, have you changed since then? For example, when you were together, did you hold her hand etc. all the time and now you don't do that as much? This is not a great example but think about it. I believe you should be yourself from the first date otherwise you will have problems later on in the relationship... Maybe you should talk to her about it and tell her how you feel... that is if you actually really don't want to lose her... Good Luck
ConfusedButLoved Posted June 8, 2007 Posted June 8, 2007 Don't get discouraged yet hagi. We women are very complicated. You will go through several relationships like this until you find someone you are very compatible with. I don't know you personally and have never dated you, so I can't really tell you what or if you are doing something wrong, I just know (from personal experience and from good ole common sense ) you have to meet 100 people before you find that one you will want to settle down with. Not everyone is fortunate enough to marry their high school sweetheart. Hang in there, and take notes. Just try you're best to be as balanced as possible and remember that every women will have different needs.
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