Author Melissa277 Posted June 11, 2007 Author Posted June 11, 2007 You know what guys? What's making me angry is he acts like we're all right now. Our life is in shambles, but in his mind, he screwed up, made amends and it's over. I, however, feel like he thinks he got away with something ... like no matter what he does, I'll still be sitting here waiting to take him back. When he was working his *ss off trying to get me back, he was throwing the "I love you so muches" and the "You don't know how sorry I am's" around daily. Along my all time favorite "It was just sex" (like that's supposed to make me feel better). He was hugging and kissing and hand holding. Now, it seems that he feels like he did what he had to do ... he got me back and now he's done. He's working, eating watching TV, etc. but that's all. Why are men such douche bags? (If you're a man, and not a douche bag, please ignore that comment.)
jmargel Posted June 11, 2007 Posted June 11, 2007 Albert Einstein said it best: "Definition of Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results". So what do you expect to happen when you have two have not taken the initiative to deal with this problem? You two need marriage counseling and it's the only way you will get some closure to this. Otherwise this resentment is going to manifest itself into all areas of your marriage which will then lead to divorce.
Author Melissa277 Posted June 11, 2007 Author Posted June 11, 2007 Albert Einstein said it best: "Definition of Insanity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting different results". So what do you expect to happen when you have two have not taken the initiative to deal with this problem? You two need marriage counseling and it's the only way you will get some closure to this. Otherwise this resentment is going to manifest itself into all areas of your marriage which will then lead to divorce. I know. But unfortunately, because of our financial situation which is a now a disaster because of his A, we cannot afford it. By the way, it's really weird that you wrote that particular quote. That is (was?) one of our favorites.
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