Quinch Posted June 7, 2007 Posted June 7, 2007 My friend is 33 and is thinking its time she became a mother before its too late which means finding a boyfriend or, ideally a husband (she's too old fashioned to go it alone). This is great but my concern is that she might rush into a relationship with the wrong guy just to have a baby. She's divorced twice so this time she has to get it 100% right or it won't just be her that gets hurt. My question for the ladies is: how long would you put off having a baby to make sure you have the right man?
quankanne Posted June 7, 2007 Posted June 7, 2007 forget a man – go to the sperm bank if you're deadset on having a kid but the clock is ticking. That way there's no messy relationship to have to resolve if he's not a suitable partner, there's no one telling her how to raise her child.
RecordProducer Posted June 7, 2007 Posted June 7, 2007 34-35. I'd rather have a baby with the wrong guy than from a sperm bank. I'd find some nice guy, some shmuk, who would make a good father. It wouldn't matter if I wouldn't be in love with him. The child would benefit from having a good guy for a dad. Having a cute baby with a handsome guy who has no other qualities might leave the child fatherless.
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