Magnatolia Posted June 7, 2007 Posted June 7, 2007 Hi All, I'm curious. When I meet a woman for the first time, be it in the street or a new colleague, what should I look for as a possible signal that things could become more, even if it's just friends outside of work. I find my biggest problem is I don't have any confidence to move things forward. Like I was chatting to a new colleague who was extremely friendly, she was turning around to talk to me all the time. Then there was another girl who I got along with quite well, made some small talk and she agreed to do lunch next time we work together. But what should I keep an eye out for that could indicate she may be interested in more. Any advice? I'm hopeless at spotting potential interest, and usually just pass it off as my imagination. So your advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
Lizzie60 Posted June 7, 2007 Posted June 7, 2007 Hi All, I'm curious. When I meet a woman for the first time, be it in the street or a new colleague, what should I look for as a possible signal that things could become more, even if it's just friends outside of work. I find my biggest problem is I don't have any confidence to move things forward. Like I was chatting to a new colleague who was extremely friendly, she was turning around to talk to me all the time. Then there was another girl who I got along with quite well, made some small talk and she agreed to do lunch next time we work together. But what should I keep an eye out for that could indicate she may be interested in more. Any advice? I'm hopeless at spotting potential interest, and usually just pass it off as my imagination. So your advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks I don't see any problems... you already spot two... If you can't make the first move then you'll have to patiently wait for the woman to do it... and my guess is that you might wait a loooonng time. Women are not there yet. When I meet a woman for the first time, be it in the street or a new colleague, what should I look for as a possible signal that things could become more Whoaaa... first time on the street... hold on a minute... I don't think that women send signals all the time on the streets or the first time they meet a stranger. Your expectations are not realistic. You need to work on your shyness. Open up a bit more... then go from there. You need to 'practise' .. if you don't then no one can do it for you. Good luck... YOU CAN DO THIS!!! come on... a bit more confidence!!!
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