Forever isnt so long Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 so me and my girl broke up as i mentioned (reasons and status of break up) in previous threads but now i am determined to get her back and i would like to know if anyone out there has any great ideas. its been three weeks since i talked to her last i sent her a card but she didnt get it yet. but what else can i do i feel like weve had enough space. i want to remind her of the Good times instead of the bad. so if you have any ideas on ways to get her back then please share them with me. Link to post Share on other sites
NorCalDave Posted June 5, 2007 Share Posted June 5, 2007 so me and my girl broke up as i mentioned (reasons and status of break up) in previous threads but now i am determined to get her back and i would like to know if anyone out there has any great ideas. its been three weeks since i talked to her last i sent her a card but she didnt get it yet. but what else can i do i feel like weve had enough space. i want to remind her of the Good times instead of the bad. so if you have any ideas on ways to get her back then please share them with me. 3 weeks may be good enough for you, but maybe not her. If she were really feeling that enough time had passed, she would call you. Trust me on this one, time is your ally at this point. The longer you stay away and tend to your own life and DON'T CALL her, she will eventually cave and call you. Trust me on that one. I have been and pretty much still am at the point where you are, and all we can do is wait it out. Doing this accomplishes two things. It allows them more time to miss us and pine for us (which is what we really want, right?) and it allows us time to clear our head and take care of ourselves. I know you miss her, I know you think just talking with her will make you feel better and you'll be healed. But it's not true. You never want to push anything on someone who may not be ready yet. And a simple phone call says, "I am still available and pining for you." It reeks of desperation. Girls always come back on their own time. When they've missed you enough. When they think you're moving on. When they're lonely. My advice? Stay away until she calls you. And when she does, don't answer. TRUST ME. Call back the next day so it doesn't look like you've been waiting for her to call. I am currently following my own advice, and I know it is the right thing to do. The biggest turnoff to a woman is a desperate man. Remember that. Please. Link to post Share on other sites
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