whattothink Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 I started dating this guy a couple weeks ago. We've been out three times, including me meeting his brother and best friend. They even invited me to hang out when my guy was out of town for a night (I didn't). He went from calling me every day at least once (sometimes more) for two weeks to not returning my call from Saturday. I just called his cell and didn't leave a message, but I'm wondering what's up. Why would a guy go from calling all the time and talking about me going on business with and wanting me to meet his kids to nothing??? Thanks for your help everyone!!!
Star Gazer Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 As soon as you find the answer to this question, let me know.
SadForever Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 i know it's hard to not hear from him and feel like you don't know what's going on. but i suggest waiting before you try contacting him again. hopefully you will hear from him soon. if you havent heard from him by the end of this weekend, it'd be hard not to think he wasn't interested in pursuing a relationship, for whatever reason. you could then decide if you want to try one last time to call and ask him what's up, or just try to let it go and move on.
socialight Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 is "why was he calling you every day, sometimes more than once", in the first 2 weeks he knew you? hot starts tend to lead to quick endings.
BonneKarma Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 you know the 'he's just not that into you' thing... well I'd have to say he's just not that into you. Please don't let it get you down. Haven't you ever met a guy and wondered if he had potential, spent some time with him and then decided you weren't a match? It's hard to face sometimes, but it happens to all of us. If he was really into you at this moment in time, he'd call. It could also be possible that he was just hoping he'd get laid. Very confusing stuff, I know.
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