tanbark813 Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 I wonder how fast his tonsils vibrate. I want some Tanny action, too. You're gonna have to get me really drunk first, man.
Star Gazer Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 As long as you like Kenneth Cole "Black" we should be good to go. Um... you might find a different scent in your Christmas stocking (or better yet, birthday treat bag!). (crossing fingers)
tanbark813 Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Um... you might find a different scent in your Christmas stocking (or better yet, birthday treat bag!). (crossing fingers) Well I am turning 30. Maybe it's time for Old Spice and a cane.
allina Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 Most women are saying that they basically want a good guy, so honestly tell me, would you date a man (if he treated you like gold) who; ~Worked at McDonalds? ~Never graduated HS? ~Was missing a front tooth ~Had 4 kids with 4 different women
Pyro Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 Most women are saying that they basically want a good guy, so honestly tell me, would you date a man (if he treated you like gold) who; ~Worked at McDonalds? ~Never graduated HS? ~Was missing a front tooth ~Had 4 kids with 4 different women A guy has to have ambitions in life.
Lady Aurora Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 Most women are saying that they basically want a good guy, so honestly tell me, would you date a man (if he treated you like gold) who; ~Worked at McDonalds? ~Never graduated HS? ~Was missing a front tooth ~Had 4 kids with 4 different women Likely not, but that does not mean he might not be attractive - which is all the original question asked. Aura
Star Gazer Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 Likely not, but that does not mean he might not be attractive - which is all the original question asked. Exactly. I don't think it's necessary to list a ton of things the guy isn't in order to describe what makes him attractive. I tend to think in terms of positives.
Green Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 well heres the reasons im attractive. Im tall, dark , and handsome. Have a comedians witt, a poets charm, and an anoucers voice. When I ever get in a fight I win, when I screw its good, drive a nice car and have a nice place, sexy career
Herzen Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 What makes a guy attractive?[/quot A killer sense of humor, a swimmer's build and a certain joie de vivre. Now that I've described myself, you ladies may reach me at 555-1212.
cutegirl Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 I am not picky, The #1 thing is on my list is something that is EXTREMELY rare and HARD to find, it sounds simple, but 99.9 percent of men in this world cannot meet this requirement. It's simply to be faithful and not stick his penis in another woman's cooch. It is a VERY rare species of men that can do this. I really think that almost all men cheat. And #2 thing to me that makes a guy attractive is someone who hasn't had a promiscuous past and banged a bunch of hookers. Preferably someone who hasn't had sex with a professional, this is really a major turn off for me. Other than that I don't care much. I don't even care if a guy is ambitious or works. I make enough for myself and to support the guy if I have to. The #1 thing for me is cheating, and guys banging hookers. This is also rare and hard to find, since majority of guys have banged a whore at some point in their lives. If a guy can do those two things I can pretty much put up with A LOT of their other crap, no matter how bad it is. I can even put up with the guy being unemployed, lazy, etc as long as they don't cheat. To me cheating is the worst. To me, cheating is worse than an abusive guy who hits me. I also think guys with more money are likely to cheat because they have more options. Therefore I prefer guys who aren't ambitious and are kinda broke...
pelagicsands Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 The #1 thing is on my list is something that is EXTREMELY rare and HARD to find, it sounds simple, but 99.9 percent of men in this world cannot meet this requirement. I thought that percentile referred to nine - not eight - inches. But I guess you could be right.
tanbark813 Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 I am not picky, The #1 thing is on my list is something that is EXTREMELY rare and HARD to find, it sounds simple, but 99.9 percent of men in this world cannot meet this requirement. It's simply to be faithful and not stick his penis in another woman's cooch. It is a VERY rare species of men that can do this. I really think that almost all men cheat. And #2 thing to me that makes a guy attractive is someone who hasn't had a promiscuous past and banged a bunch of hookers. Preferably someone who hasn't had sex with a professional, this is really a major turn off for me. FWIW, I've never cheated nor banged a whore. We are out there.
pelagicsands Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 FWIW, I've never cheated nor banged a whore. So... you have never run off without paying, and you have never gone for a full service. Am I reading you right? Do you just have a friendly chat, then??
tanbark813 Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 So... you have never run off without paying, and you have never gone for a full service. Am I reading you right? Do you just have a friendly chat, then?? There are plenty of figurative whores in karaoke bars that can be had for free. No need to run off to a professional.
cutegirl Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 FWIW, I've never cheated nor banged a whore. We are out there. Banging a whore includes getting a happy ending at a massage parlor, getting a lap dance until orgasm, going to third world countries for sex vacations, high class call girls, etc etc It's really hard for me to believe there could be a guy out there that doesn't participate in any of those activities. Seriously. They have escort/prostitution message boards online for guys who call themselves "hobbyists" or "mongers". They review hookers and where to find them for how much, and those boards have THOUSANDS and THOUSANDS of members. Plus the guys there give each other advice and excuses on how to get away with cheating on their wives and girlfriends, like what excuses to use etc Seriously, 99.9 percent of men cheat or bang hookers. A male friend once told me that he is a guy and therefore he knows that ALL guys would cheat if they knew they could get away with it. He told me it was a secret that all males shared. My ex told me the same thing, he said that all men get tired of one woman after a while, they need sexual variety. I think this was somehow also explained in biology through the fact that males need to spread their seed around while women stay pregnant for 9 months...
Star Gazer Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 I am not picky, The #1 thing is on my list is something that is EXTREMELY rare and HARD to find, it sounds simple, but 99.9 percent of men in this world cannot meet this requirement. It's simply to be faithful and not stick his penis in another woman's cooch. It is a VERY rare species of men that can do this. I really think that almost all men cheat. And #2 thing to me that makes a guy attractive is someone who hasn't had a promiscuous past and banged a bunch of hookers. Preferably someone who hasn't had sex with a professional, this is really a major turn off for me. Other than that I don't care much. I don't even care if a guy is ambitious or works. I make enough for myself and to support the guy if I have to. The #1 thing for me is cheating, and guys banging hookers. This is also rare and hard to find, since majority of guys have banged a whore at some point in their lives. If a guy can do those two things I can pretty much put up with A LOT of their other crap, no matter how bad it is. I can even put up with the guy being unemployed, lazy, etc as long as they don't cheat. To me cheating is the worst. To me, cheating is worse than an abusive guy who hits me. I also think guys with more money are likely to cheat because they have more options. Therefore I prefer guys who aren't ambitious and are kinda broke... Okay, so you're saying you find someone who's faithful attractive then? Well, isn't that an obvious positive quality? I don't believe all guys cheat. I can't live life like that, or I'd go crazy. There are guys who have made mistakes, sure. But there are plenty of good guys out there. I also find it really hard to believe that the majority of guys have slept with prostitutes. I would even go as far to say that I'd bet my 401K that none of the guys I have dated seriously have. Cheating is absolutely intolerable in my book. The easiest way to get me to walk away from a guy is to have him cheat on me. That said, I don't agree with your whole "If he's rich he'll cheat" theory. Statistically speaking, couples with a higher net worth/income who are educated and couple up in their late 20's or later have a higher success rate than those lazy-bums you're choosing to shack up with.
Star Gazer Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 FWIW, I've never cheated nor banged a whore. We are out there. Perhaps you are one of the needles... :love:
Pyro Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 Banging a whore includes getting a happy ending at a massage parlor, getting a lap dance until orgasm, going to third world countries for sex vacations, high class call girls, etc etc It's really hard for me to believe there could be a guy out there that doesn't participate in any of those activities. Seriously. They have escort/prostitution message boards online for guys who call themselves "hobbyists" or "mongers". They review hookers and where to find them for how much, and those boards have THOUSANDS and THOUSANDS of members. Plus the guys there give each other advice and excuses on how to get away with cheating on their wives and girlfriends, like what excuses to use etc Seriously, 99.9 percent of men cheat or bang hookers. A male friend once told me that he is a guy and therefore he knows that ALL guys would cheat if they knew they could get away with it. He told me it was a secret that all males shared. My ex told me the same thing, he said that all men get tired of one woman after a while, they need sexual variety. I think this was somehow also explained in biology through the fact that males need to spread their seed around while women stay pregnant for 9 months... Oh come on, this is silly talk. Men and women do cheat but there are a TON of both men and women that do not cheat. Our morals as a society can be bad, but not that bad. It sounds as though you have been talking to and have dated the wrong type of guy. Once you meet a great guy you will think differently about us males. I hope that you meet someone soon.
cutegirl Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 Okay, so you're saying you find someone who's faithful attractive then? Well, isn't that an obvious positive quality? I don't believe all guys cheat. I can't live life like that, or I'd go crazy. There are guys who have made mistakes, sure. But there are plenty of good guys out there. I also find it really hard to believe that the majority of guys have slept with prostitutes. I would even go as far to say that I'd bet my 401K that none of the guys I have dated seriously have. Cheating is absolutely intolerable in my book. The easiest way to get me to walk away from a guy is to have him cheat on me. That said, I don't agree with your whole "If he's rich he'll cheat" theory. Statistically speaking, couples with a higher net worth/income who are educated and couple up in their late 20's or later have a higher success rate than those lazy-bums you're choosing to shack up with. There were studies done that indicated that wealthier men are more likely to cheat. From http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17951664/page/2/ "For men with money, infidelity is just another perk. Among men making more than $300,000 a year, 32 percent report cheating, compared to 21 percent of men making less than $35,000 a year. Wealth isn't much of a factor in women's cheating." “Wealthy men may simply have more dating opportunities than men with less income,” says David Frederick, a psychologist at the University of California, Los Angeles, who helped analyze the survey findings." That's proof right then and there. What success rate are you referring too about men who are successful? It has been proven that men who are more successful are even MORE likely to cheat. Obviously they have more opportunities to cheat, more options available, more women coming on to them, and perhaps even a sense of entitlement or self-importance due to their success. I make pretty good money. I can AFFORD to date a bum. The #1 positive quality I look for is faithfulness, I can overlook a lot of poor qualities in a man. It's MUCH easier to find a rich man than a faithful man. A faithful man is an EXTREME rare find in this world today. I think that women are being too idealistic and naive when they think that the majority of men haven't banged prostitutes or cheated. The world is an ugly place. It's not the "bad" guys who have sex with hookers. It could be your father, your uncle, a respectable doctor, judge, president... Do you really think most guys would ADMIT it if they had sex with a hooker? A man's main rule is to deny, deny and deny! I actually read this in a book called "What Men Don't Want Women To Know." It explains how men really think, how they would cheat in a heartbeat if they could get away with it and how the ultimate one night stand for a man is a hooker. They would never admit it because once they do the truth will unravel. It is in their interest to deny until the death.
Star Gazer Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 I can't find it now, but I've read in SEVERAL places over the past few months that the higher the income level, the more educated, and the older the individuals are when they marry, the LESS likely they are to divorce. I was discussing successful relationships, not cheating. I simply do not believe that ALL men cheat. That's ludicrous. Nevertheless, this whole "all men screw hookers" thing is totally OT. Your point is that the ONLY quality you look for is faithfulness. We get it.
Pyro Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 Of course everyone is physically capable of cheating, but those with a good heart and soul will not do it and there are a ton of males and females that fit that description. Sure we could all sit here and never have a relationship just because we fear of that possibility of them cheating, but its a risk to take and its a good risk. We all take risks on a daily basis. The easy thing would be to fear it instead of giving it a try, but what fun would that be?
cutegirl Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 I can't find it now, but I've read in SEVERAL places over the past few months that the higher the income level, the more educated, and the older the individuals are when they marry, the LESS likely they are to divorce. I was discussing successful relationships, not cheating. I simply do not believe that ALL men cheat. That's ludicrous. Nevertheless, this whole "all men screw hookers" thing is totally OT. Your point is that the ONLY quality you look for is faithfulness. We get it. For me, a "successful relationship" is not one that has to overcome the obstacle of a partner cheating. That by itself already makes the relationship unsuccessful. It is not something I would want to overcome because I would consider it finished already once either party cheats. Sure, perhaps older and more educated couples are less likely to divorce, so instead they put up with their partners cheating and screwing around behind their back. Or else they go to therapy and marriage counseling. I guess you can't win either way. You pick one or the other.
RecordProducer Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 On the first sight or after dating him for a while? If I went out with a guy for the first time tonight, I would enjoy his company: if I thought he's attractive, if he would smile like there's no tomorrow, if he listened very carefully to what I had to say, if he asked me questions that don't make me feel uncomfortable (but not questions like what's my favorite color or food), if he talked softly and eloquently in his own unique style, if he didn't act like he's ashamed of his own existence, if he flirted subtly, if he's easy on the eyes, if he talked about things that interest me, if he told me interesting stories from his life, if he didn't make a flirty eye contact with the waitress or stare at the blond girl in a mini skirt, who passed by us if he's educated and loves to read, if he's dynamic and energetic (but not hyper), if he's dressed nicely (not necessary, but it's a bonus), if he had god manners,...etc. What would be a major turn-off: any rude comment or bad manners, any hostility towards the whole female gender, any comment about how some girl or even actress is gorgeous (unless it's in a context and not stated for the purpose of merely praising her beauty - the reason for this is because it would make him look like he LOVES women (read: unfaithful)), insecurity and lack of self-comfort, gossiping, awkward and/or boring conversation, not insisting to pay my share, any weird statements and behavior,... etc.
RecordProducer Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 The world is an ugly place. This attitude makes your glasses grey. What does it mean "more likely" to cheat? Would you be with a guy who is less likely to cheat by statistics? Cheating starts with the desire to cheat. Just because handsome and rich men get laid instantly while the ugly and poor can't afford it doesn't mean that somebody is more or less likely to cheat. What you're looking for basically, in your fear of being hurt and betrayed, is a guy that nobody wants so you can have him just for yourself. Many beautiful women marry ugly, older men, because they believe subconsciously that it guarantees some protection from infidelity - just to realize that these insecure people are also able to cheat. Infidelity is not directly proportional to one's qualities. On the contrary, it's directly proportional to lack of self-esteem and moral values. Besides, with your attitude that you make good money so you can afford to date a bum, you're setting yourself up for being with someone who will see you as a food ticket. And that guy would be very likely to cheat. In reality, it's all about love. If you live with someone who is your equal, and he loves you and respects you, he won't cheat on you. Most women are saying that they basically want a good guy, so honestly tell me, would you date a man (if he treated you like gold) who; ~Worked at McDonalds? ~Never graduated HS? ~Was missing a front tooth ~Had 4 kids with 4 different women Those guys date women, too!
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