Topper Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Oh, I forget one a righteous man won't defile neighbor's wife Can he defile the neighbors Daughter, or can she defile him?
Topper Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 You guys, c'mon - get serious for once and give a real response! Here's what I find attractive: ~ A sense of humor. A guy who can make me laugh at least once every day is a keeper in my book. ~ Integrity. ~ Good cologne choice. ~ Knows how to hug. ~ Great kisser. The rest is all details. So a short overwieght unemployed bald guy with bad skin but he was funny. That guy could have a chance with you? You can only find out about the hugging and the kissing if you give the guy a chance. Any guy can buy a nice cologne
johan Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 So a short overwieght unemployed bald guy with bad skin but he was funny. That guy could have a chance with you? Actually, I think Tanbark has a job.
Trialbyfire Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Attractive men are ones who accept themselves and don't have self-esteem issues. It drives me crazy when men require the little woman to walk three paces behind them. A need to be deified is not attractive, it's plain and simple, needy. I expect to stand beside a man, where both support and encourage each other to be their best, even if their best exceeds the other. It makes me happy to watch my partner shine and I expect reciprocation of such.
Lizzie60 Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 A good sense of humour Well groomed Lots of cash Driving a Mercedes or a Porsche or a Jaguar
serial muse Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 So a short overwieght unemployed bald guy with bad skin but he was funny. That guy could have a chance with you? You can only find out about the hugging and the kissing if you give the guy a chance. Any guy can buy a nice cologne Heh, I married that guy. But he had good skin. :lmao::lmao: Edited to add: Oh, wait, he had hair too. My next BF was bald. Seriously, guys, there are plenty of women who give those guys a chance. Ironically, the exH had enough self-esteem issues (well-hidden - he was quite the charmer on the surface, a technique I think he spent years developing) that he ended up cheating on me. Heh. So there you go. As for the next BF - he was only perhaps an inch or two taller than me, losing his hair...and hot. Y'all need to get over yourselves with the stereotypes.
DanielMadr Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 What makes a guy attractive? Interest of other girls.
HennyPenny Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 I am not typical of most women. I don't like men who dress up in trendy fashions or use lots of hair product. I like a man to be unique, eccentric. Also, to look and smell clean. A freshly showered man in a bleached white tshirt is wonderful. Nice, clean teeth are a necessity. I am also a sucker for a pair of beautiful, expressive eyes, and a nice laugh. I am also a sucker for kindness. If he's sweet and somewhat attentive to my needs, that's when I get weak. If he won't call or becomes aloof, I run the other way. On the other hand, I like a man to be somewhat possessive and assertive. It's a fine balance between sweetness and strength. *******s don't get me hot at all. Nice guys are where it's at. Too bad nice guys are usually too busy reforming crack whores. As for money, all I ask is that he be self-sufficient. I don't get off on guys who drive showy cars or monster trucks AT ALL.
Trimmer Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 for young women - muscles and a larger penis you know that is NOT true ! young women need a shinyknight !!! I don't know about a knight, but I know one guy who calls his "The Duke"; would that do?
serial muse Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 I am not typical of most women. Yah...who is, really? Defining what's "typical of most women" is the tug-of-war du jour round these parts. I don't know about a knight, but I know one guy who calls his "The Duke"; would that do? Ew, not for me. Never really found John Wayne all that attractive. (heresy?!?)
alphamale Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Interest of other girls. boy thats the truth brother....no one wants to eat at an empty restaurant
allina Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 I'm not sure if this will make sense but to me it's an identity. A man who has a life, a set of opinions, likes and dislikes is attractive. I wouldn't want a man blob that has no identity, no sense of self and just floats through life latching on what others like or want.
allina Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Interest of other girls. It's funny, a few weekends ago my SO and I attended a party. When we walked in a woman approached him and was like "omg I've been wanting to meet you, I'm so glad you're here" She showered him with compliments though she never met him before just knew who he was. I sort of felt complimented
halfarock Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 I am not typical of most women. I don't like men who dress up in trendy fashions or use lots of hair product. I like a man to be unique, eccentric. Also, to look and smell clean. A freshly showered man in a bleached white tshirt is wonderful. Nice, clean teeth are a necessity. I am also a sucker for a pair of beautiful, expressive eyes, and a nice laugh. I am also a sucker for kindness. If he's sweet and somewhat attentive to my needs, that's when I get weak. If he won't call or becomes aloof, I run the other way. On the other hand, I like a man to be somewhat possessive and assertive. It's a fine balance between sweetness and strength. *******s don't get me hot at all. Nice guys are where it's at. Too bad nice guys are usually too busy reforming crack whores. As for money, all I ask is that he be self-sufficient. I don't get off on guys who drive showy cars or monster trucks AT ALL. I don’t know how typical you are but your attitude, as expressed here pretty much matches the attitudes of most the woman that I have carried on with. Long time ago I came to the conclusion that the best way to attract a woman is to be the man the woman wants. I have become that man. As a consequence I typically have had more women actively attracted to me than I can handle. Here I will go down your list. hair products - Nothing more than shampoo and a comb. My hair is naturally soft and full with a multitude of colors; all I need to do is keep it clean. I’ve long lost count of the numbers of times women have just come up to me and run their hands through my hair and went, ”Oh, you have such beautiful hair.” unique, eccentric - When you have the confidence to live your life the way you want and not just do what every one else does, this seems to be highly attractive to many women. to look and smell clean – I bathe daily whether I need to or not. Who wants to be around a dirty, smelly person? Yuck Nice, clean teeth are a necessity – You can’t have a million dollar smile unless you have the teeth to make it shine. I once did this experiment to see what it is that I have to do to get a woman (who I didn’t know) to pay attention to me. In every trial, all I had to do was get near her and smile. sucker for a pair of beautiful, expressive eyes – When I was a lot younger, I was in a LTR with a very beautiful woman who happened to pose naked for magazines and dance at strip clubs. (She is nothing like the stereotypical stripper.) She made her money by guys paying to look at her. She complained to me all the time about how bland and soulless the eyes of most those guys were, and guys in general. By comparison she was always telling me how my eyes and they way I looked at her really did something for her, made her day, every day. If he's sweet and somewhat attentive to my needs, that's when I get weak. – I sometimes get accused of being a bad-boy because I’m somewhat muscular, am not timid about getting abrasive with those I disagree with, and tend to let my hair grow long. But, I’m sure, if you were to collect up all the women that I ever had a thing with; sweet is the word they would all use in describing me. What makes me sweet, I’m nice to them, I open the door, I give them my attention, I listen, I flirt and for some reason I’m seen to be innocent about it. In every case that Ican think of it was while I was being nice, doing something for her, that girlfriends first began that change in attitude where she just kind of melts in a way that tells me that I had gotten her, so to speak. Here’s another really big one - happiness. Most days I am genuinely happy, it’s just the way I am, the way I look at things. I’m always amazed at the number of people who gravitate towards me seemingly to somehow get in on that happiness. This goes back up to the one about teeth. There is just something about walking into a room, confidently, looking good, smiling; all the girls are dreaming I’ll sit next to them. I’m happy.
IpAncA Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 What makes a guy attractive? Intelligent Has a job Has a place to live Has a car Has an education Funny Integrity Doesn't dress trashy Good Hygine Smells good Has a good male voice Honest Patience Sarcastic No anger problems Fit Loving Caring Affectionate Has a good relationship with his family or at least some of them. Able to maintain friendships Fun to be around Isn't stuck up, do put downs, snotty, rude, crazy, mean (to me) etc... Strong Isn't a momma's boy Kisses good Stands up for himself Knows how to fix things Wasn't brought up in the nuns house Has a good sense of direction Doesn't smoke or do drugs Same reigion as me Same political side as me Doesn't judge Considerate Old fashion Isn't afraid to be himself Likes to talk Isn't shy Taller than me but not a deal breaker Isn't hairy like a dog Isn't bald like a poodle Independent Likes sports and likes to do things Isn't a NEWS FREAK!!!
pelagicsands Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 I expect to stand beside a man, Sounds reasonable. Just don't stand in front of him, or you might find yourself being taken advantage of. Having said that, you might enjoy it.
Star Gazer Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 So a short overwieght unemployed bald guy with bad skin but he was funny. That guy could have a chance with you? You're going a little overboard with those characteristics. I'm honestly not that vain and superficial anymore. The OP asked for things we find attractive, and I find my list to be some of the most common qualities. I've dated short guys, overweight guys, unemployed guys, bald guys, guys with non-perfect skin...and each of them was attractive to me because they had the qualities I listed. I'm telling you, a guy who can make me laugh every day WILL win a piece of my heart.
Star Gazer Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Actually, I think Tanbark has a job. Ha! Yes, he does....among other fantabulous qualities.
Topper Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Star I hope you know i was just pulling your very well turned, creamy smooth,soft to touch leg of yours So your going to start dating Larry the Cable Guy?
pelagicsands Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Ha! Yes, he does....among other fantabulous qualities. I wonder how fast his tonsils vibrate. I want some Tanny action, too.
Star Gazer Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Star I hope you know i was just pulling your very well turned, creamy smooth,soft to touch leg of yours Now I do. So your going to start dating Larry the Cable Guy? Nah, I'll pass. I've got my eyes on someone else.
Trialbyfire Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Sounds reasonable. Just don't stand in front of him, or you might find yourself being taken advantage of. Having said that, you might enjoy it. Another reason to stand beside my man. No access to the exit...
ilmw Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Another reason to stand beside my man. No access to the exit... :lmao::lmao::lmao:
tanbark813 Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 You guys, c'mon - get serious for once and give a real response! Here's what I find attractive: ~ A sense of humor. A guy who can make me laugh at least once every day is a keeper in my book. ~ Integrity. ~ Good cologne choice. ~ Knows how to hug. ~ Great kisser. The rest is all details. As long as you like Kenneth Cole "Black" we should be good to go.
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