budd98 Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 I have been broken up with my ex for 2 weeks now and I am just curious about the way she is acting. She broke up with me by "wanting space." We had been together for 2 years. Anyways, we talk on the phone every couple of days and she has sent me a couple text messages. Many of her messages are that she hopes I am having fun with some girl or something on that line and then always says "whatever take care best of luck". When we talk on the phone she tells me what she has been doing and her schedule. She never really asks what I am doing. She also asks if I went out to the bars. I have'nt so she right away assumes I am with a girl at my house. I have'nt done anything like that and have never cheated in the relationship. I really do want to get back together with her. Does anyone have an idea why she is acting this way? And is it a good or bad sign for us getting back together? Do you think she is missing me?
BlueEyedSarah Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Hmm, thats difficult to understand with why she is acting like that. Seems as though she doesnt trust you for sure but no idea why not since you say you have not cheated on her during your relationship so why would she not trust you? Hmm..odd... She must want you back though since she is getting mad by not letting you go after she dumped you. Why would she dump you yet not want you to be with someone? When my ex broke up with me he sent me nasty emails with vulger swearing and name calling because he assumed that I was seeing other guys when HE was the one to break up with me. It turns out that he wants me back. She might be like this because she wants you back, but I don't know.
Author budd98 Posted June 5, 2007 Author Posted June 5, 2007 She broke up with me because she says I am not the person she thought I was. She had been pressuring me into marriage and I am just not ready for that yet. She says I control her, but in reallity she is the one triing to control me. I let her do everything but she holds me back. She doesn't even like me going to the gym cause she thinks I will meet some girl there. Anyways, today I brought her dvd back to her place and I ended up talking with her for an hour in the doorway. I told her I was going to the mall to check the sales and invited her with. She came with me and we were there for like 5 hours. She seemed to care what I bought or looked at. She also wanted to go to Victoria Secret. We went and she kept asking me which underwear I liked best. I can tell she likes me, but she tries to play it cool all the time. Then I dropped her off at her place ans she tells me to have fun at my girlfriends house. I just shook my head. Its so crazy! Any ideas why she tries to play things so cool all the time?
frd150 Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 Hey Budd, Can i ask how old she is?The statements she is making seem a little on the immature side. Sorry for that btw. It is obvious that she still has feelings for you and she is showing you in her own strange way.You need to sit her down and just ask her or you will never know for sure . Do it for your own sanity. Word of caution, you may not hear what you hope to hear despite her actions. Head games, ah crp.
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