RyTom21 Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 This is really embarrassing for me, but I didn't know where else to turn. And I hope people here will be mature enough to not make fun of me. I ejaculate extremely quickly when I masturbate. Between 10 and 20 seconds after I start. Does that necessarily mean that I will prematurely ejaculate the first time I have sex? Basically what i'm asking is....Does how long you last during masturbation have anything to do with how long you'll last during sex?
Lizzie60 Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 This is really embarrassing for me, but I didn't know where else to turn. And I hope people here will be mature enough to not make fun of me. I ejaculate extremely quickly when I masturbate. Between 10 and 20 seconds after I start. Does that necessarily mean that I will prematurely ejaculate the first time I have sex? Basically what i'm asking is....Does how long you last during masturbation have anything to do with how long you'll last during sex? I don't think it has anything to do with it... sometimes when I masturbate, I will have an orgasm within the first two minutes... when I have sex it's the same... sometimes it takes longer... No I'm sure it has nothing to do with it... but hey... nothing like experimenting it.. LOL
ilmw Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 This is really embarrassing for me, but I didn't know where else to turn. And I hope people here will be mature enough to not make fun of me. I ejaculate extremely quickly when I masturbate. Between 10 and 20 seconds after I start. Does that necessarily mean that I will prematurely ejaculate the first time I have sex? Basically what i'm asking is....Does how long you last during masturbation have anything to do with how long you'll last during sex? No.. I don't think so... but when you masturbate.. you are in 100% in control.. of when.. you do ejaculate... not always the same when you have sex. Now the first few times I had sex.. I did not last very long... It was inexperience.. The more I had sex... the better I got... longer I lasted.. I learned some self control... and learned about a women's body... what they like... where to touch them... and how to touch them...(a key element) Like I said.. its down to experience..
StartingOver07 Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 I ejaculate extremely quickly when I masturbate. Between 10 and 20 seconds after I start. Does that necessarily mean that I will prematurely ejaculate the first time I have sex? I think you want to start practicing control methods so that you can prolong ejaculation.
Art_Critic Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Now the first few times I had sex.. I did not last very long... It was inexperience.. The more I had sex... the better I got... longer I lasted.. I learned some self control... Same here.. My first time I was a "3 pump chump" RYTom, Try not to worry about what it will be like the first time.. you will be fine.. The girl you have sex with will understand and not make fun of you.. If you have trouble cumming too fast then if your masturbate first you will be able to last longer and then you can learn how to gain self control over your orgasm. Today if I want to I can last almost as long as I want just by using mind control to push it back.. I normally don't do that as it ruins some of the intensity and can get tiring for the girl.
ilmw Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 Same here.. My first time I was a "3 pump chump" RYTom, Try not to worry about what it will be like the first time.. you will be fine.. The girl you have sex with will understand and not make fun of you.. If you have trouble cumming too fast then if your masturbate first you will be able to last longer and then you can learn how to gain self control over your orgasm. Today if I want to I can last almost as long as I want just by using mind control to push it back.. I normally don't do that as it ruins some of the intensity and can get tiring for the girl. Exactly... you also learn through experience how to pace yourself... and when you are with a woman more than once you learn her rhythm. What she likes.. also each woman is different.. some like this.. some like that... so you have to learn and learn somemore.. when you gain more experience... you gain confidence... which woman do appreciate..
halfarock Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 I ejaculate extremely quickly when I masturbate. Between 10 and 20 seconds after I start. Does that necessarily mean that I will prematurely ejaculate the first time I have sex? Don't know, but if you do it just gives you an excuse to do it again because the second time usually takes a bit longer.
2sunny Posted June 4, 2007 Posted June 4, 2007 also - for the man to handle himself - is usually a very tight grip - whereas a gal will give you a different sensation - hopefully making it last longer for you... probably more wet, warm and soft... is the way it has been described to me...
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