J.LO Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 Theres this guy friend of mine (Troy), and he has a gf. The thing is..he was told by me that i sorta liked him. I asked him if he liked me alittle and he wouldnt answer and changed the subject. They keep breaking up, because he dumps her..she tends to try and hookup with his friends. Anyways, he's with her, but he's watching me and it freaks me out! I noticed..actually my friends notice that only when I come around the corner, they are all over eachother. If I'm not around, they are seprated. Are they playing a game? Also his gf stares at me all the time. And i dont know why, because i dont pay attention to them. I'm usually outside or whereever..cuz this is at school. So, then he comes and talks to me all the time on msn, and we talk about everything. He told me he's glad that we can talk about stuff. The thing is, I was feeling down one day and out of the blue he says iam very sorry but I only see you as a friend. So I was like what? Where did that come from. And then he said then what is it..thinking that i was talking about him. I told him I only like him as a friend and he said oh..really? Then i said yeah and he got alilttle weird. So I asked him why he always stares at me, and he said well..arent I allowed to look? I was surprised by that comment. But he has a gf that he hardly pays attention too. Then the next day, at night, cuz we are in the same sport club. He tried to gt my attention the whole time. He would come stand right on front of me, talk to me, flirt, even grabbed me by the waist. It's like he was a totally different person. He even wrestled with me, and smiled the whole time! I was just in shock, and I didn't want to go along with it because I felt it wasnt right. So, now I dn't know whats going on. Is he playing games? Or does he like me?
norajane Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 He might like you AND be playing games. Or none of the above. It's really unclear to me. Regardless of how he feels or what he's really thinking, the bottom line is he has a relationship with his girlfriend. Which makes anything that he does with you that crosses the line of friendship (or that appears to), irrelevant because nothing good comes to you out of it. Stick to being his friend, and turn your eyes to someone else who is free to be himself and free to be with you.
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