toffeeflower Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 Me and my boyfriend broke up two days ago. We started out liking each other so much, and then he started school part-way through February, a week after we had started dating. So, by the end of March, things started to tumble. Because he was -always- tired and felt sick a lot, and I didn't know how to deal with that, because it was such a change from how he was acting before, so I'd get upset. This happened a lot, so it just made us like each other less. I'd expect him to disappoint me and he'd expect me to get upset, obviously. So instead of focusing on the good things we liked about each other, it'd just be this negative and it wouldn't really go away because we wouldn't talk about it. And so we broke up two days ago and he said how he just doesn't love me as a girlfriend anymore. He says he has to clear his head and figure out what he wants, as well. He'll have to find a job soon after he finishes school and I believe that's what he's referring to. But, I seriously think that when he's finished school and if we don't talk for awhile, we can start to re-kindle our romantic relationship again. Because, we won't be elaborating on the negative anymore. It'd be like a clean slate. Input?
norajane Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 If you left each other on good terms, then it's possible you might one day get back together. The thing is, you both still need to learn how to deal with each other when he's tired/sick/stressed and you're upset about his behavior toward you and all the negativity. You can't expect to have a relationship where no negative things ever happen - you have to learn how to handle problems.
Author toffeeflower Posted June 3, 2007 Author Posted June 3, 2007 Yeah. I agree. It's just a matter of if he'll try again... He said he doesn't think he'll ever forgive himself for hurting me.
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