bobb_b Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 ok. My girlfriend wants a break for just about a week, she hangs out with a guy she almost dated before and then didnt talk to for a long time and now she does, this guy also likes her. i dunno what to think about her wanting the break and if i rlly should be worried about her and other guys especially this guy who she almost dated before. we have also been going out for a year.
BlueEyedSarah Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 Take the 'break' but dont get back with her. She is playing a game with you and girls like that are not trustworthy in my opinion.
norajane Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 A week break? What could possibly be the reason for a break for only a week? Some people don't even see each other every single week, so it's hardly a break. How has your relationship been during the last few months? Did she say if she needs time to think about your relationship? Did she say what she needs to think about? Did she say what she intends to do during this break? Is she going away somewhere for a week, maybe with that other guy? When combined with her renewed relationship with the other guy, it sounds like she's thinking she could try having a relationship with him (or just sex) during that week, and then, depending on how that goes, decide whether to completely break up with you or not. If she gets back together, she can try to justify having sex with him by saying you were on a break. I think she's playing games with you, and if that's the case, it ought to be the last game she plays - tell her breaking up makes more sense than taking a week break.
polywog Posted June 3, 2007 Posted June 3, 2007 Yikes, that sounds suspicious. Like perhaps she is keeping you around to see which guy she likes better... pretty immature of her, if that's the case, not to mention selfish. I say keep the "break" going for your sake. You shouldn't be treated like this if that's what's going on. You deserve better. Welcome to LS, by the way. Keep posting as more info unfolds, or if you need to for support and advice. This is a great place with loads of smart compasionate people.
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