Iamhere123 Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 [COLOR=#333333]So about a week ago my girlfriend who is a senior in highschool (i am college freshman) asked me if it was okay if she asked this guy that is one of her friends friendsmore that doesnt live here any to go to prom with her,since he was going, because her friend wanted her to ask him..i said it was okay...then she tells me the other night that she really wants me to go with her..i say what about that other guy...and she says oh, my friend asked him. So i am like, so i am the second choice?..she is like "no, you are really not, someone wanted me to ask him"...i am hurt by this...but I don't think she sees it how i see it...should i be hurt? should i be upset? [/COLOR]
whichwayisup Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 Why did you say okay to that in the first place? And why can't she just say to her friends, NO I'm not asking anybody else to the Prom, except MY boyfriend!!! Obviously she wasn't thinking about you and your feelings. You have a right to be hurt, but also, you did tell her you were OK with that...Maybe she wanted YOU to say no??? Reverse psychology or something? How is the rest of your relationship with her?
reef man Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 [COLOR=#333333]So about a week ago my girlfriend who is a senior in highschool (i am college freshman) asked me if it was okay if she asked this guy that is one of her friends friendsmore that doesnt live here any to go to prom with her,since he was going, because her friend wanted her to ask him..i said it was okay...then she tells me the other night that she really wants me to go with her..i say what about that other guy...and she says oh, my friend asked him. So i am like, so i am the second choice?..she is like "no, you are really not, someone wanted me to ask him"...i am hurt by this...but I don't think she sees it how i see it...should i be hurt? should i be upset? [/COLOR] Hell yes you should be hurt and upset. And she should be dumped. You are her boyfriend and prom is a really big deal. Its damn insulting that she wants to take another guy. And her saying her friend wanted her to ask him is a load of bunk. She wants to go with him, not her friend. Ask someone else to the prom and dump her. She is not worth it.
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