Guest Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 Hello all, I hope i could get a little opinion out of this. I have a friend, name K, who i met at work about 5 years ago. After he worked for my company for 2 mths, he left to LA for a better opportunity. So, we lost touch. Then 6 months after, he sent an email to me, but unfortunately, i started dating someone else, his name is C. I date c, becuase i missed k. But i felt obligate to stick with c at the time, because i don't think my other friend, k, is worthed, eventhough i still had feeling for him at the time. So, long story make it short. I had a baby with C. C and I broke up before i even knew i was pregnant. But here K is still having feeling for me, and i still have feeling for him. But k doesn't tell me much when he had a chance to see me. When he had a chance to see me, he always asked "let's have a baby." and i always said "no.". And now, he just asked me another question "do i want to marry him?" I told him by saying "i can't marry a person without knowing him well enough. Although occasionally i thought of it." Now, my question is that what does this guy want. He's in another state now, and he will not move to my state. I don't mind relocation though. I wonder what is he thinking, because he doesn't talk to me on the phone, nor chat. We have all the technology to express our feeling, but he just doesn't tell me much about his family,friends or work. I don't feel emotionally connect to him at all, eventhough i try to. Does anyone know what is this guy thinking? I am so confuse. I plan to ask him some serious questions when he see him next time. BTW-we've seen each other about 10 times within the past 5 yrs only. And don't think we have sex everytime we see each other, ok friends thanks in advance for giving me your honest opinions
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