Patty Posted January 24, 2003 Posted January 24, 2003 I felt a little uncomfortable yesterday when I saw this person added me to his buddy list on msn.He hasnt seen me in a long time.So later yesterday night,I was sort of busy and blocked his nickname so he couldnt bother me.Hes just one of them persons,everytime he sees me online,he thinks he can just instant message me as he pleases.A while ago he use to talk to me about moving in with him in California and said he was getting a new home.He begged me to no end.I said to him several times,Im not interested. Last night he asked me if I took him off my buddy list,cause another person told him I was online.I was like "well Im kind of busy".So to make peace I wont block him anymore,Ill just get off my computer whenever I see him on.I remember him stalking me online,once asking for my address.Good thing I didnt give it to him.Everytime he sees me he tries to convince me to be with him.He just makes me very uncomfortable when I talk to him.I guess cause of the experiences,I had with him getting very mad and yelling at me cause I wouldnt give him my information.Whenever I tell him how I feel he gets very mad and starts his yelling and swearing. I dont know how he got on to talk to me if I had him blocked,strange. Patty
yes Posted January 25, 2003 Posted January 25, 2003 just don't reply to him. EVER!!! isn't that easy? he sounds creepy. NEVER give your info to online acquintainces! good luck, -yes
Ally Boo Posted January 25, 2003 Posted January 25, 2003 You shouldn't feel guilty for blocking him. He's freaky, why don't you just change your MSN name or something and ONLY give it to people you KNOW aren't associated with him.
Just A Girl2 Posted January 26, 2003 Posted January 26, 2003 So to make peace I wont block him anymore,Ill just get off my computer whenever I see him on Wait a minute here.....this guy pesters you, you say he's stalked you online before, you say in the past he's sworn and yelled at you (by the way, how does one do this "online").....but you're going to inconvenience YOURSELF (logging off your computer when you see him online) to 'keep the peace'? Do you know this guy in person? Or is he just an online acquaintance of sorts? If you don't know him in person, then who gives a crap. BLOCK him from your buddy list....THEN DELETE HIM......then go into your particular Messenger's "settings" or "preferences" and select it so that nobody can add themself to your buddy list without your knowledge/permission. Pretty simple, hey? Also, if there's ever anyone you don't want to talk to on your buddy list, whether it be AOL IM or MSN messenger, all you have to do is set your "status" to "AWAY" or "BUSY"......that's also very simple. Why do you even care what this butthead thinks? Why do you feel compelled to "keep the peace" with someone you say has treated you badly and disrespectfully...who you don't want anything to do with? Be assertive and stand up for yourself.
RollingBones Posted February 5, 2003 Posted February 5, 2003 I dont know how he got on to talk to me if I had him blocked,strange. If odd things are happening to your account, he may have figured out your password, especially if it's something like your first name or the name of your favorite TV show, etc, etc. Be sure to pick something no one can figure out and change it every month or so. This guy is acting nutty. Just thought I'd add that... just in case.
Author Patty Posted February 14, 2003 Author Posted February 14, 2003 Well I set my IM to offline so that he dont bother me.Every time he sees me online he starts with "I have always had feelings for you" and "I hope you will one day feel the same about me".Now he cant see when Im online.I told him before and he can see Im not interested but he still pesters me.This other person I talk too wants me to be with him,I dont know what to do,I feel pressured to make her happy cause if I dont then Im afraid she will stop talking to me. I know he gets on sometimes to ask me personal questions then whatever I say he runs back and tells her.I know he tells her everything cause she IM'd me and he was right there with her and asked me why I removed him from my list.I know if I go back online he will see me and start his questions.I wont tell him when my vacation is either then he will get his ideas about taking a plane up.Hes probably telling her this and that and wants her to feel sorry for him.But thats ok cause Im not going to risk my life like that.,I no longer feel comfortable after the time he stalked me online.Im doing everything I can to avoid that situation from occuring. Patty
Author Patty Posted February 15, 2003 Author Posted February 15, 2003 Its someone that use to stalk me online.Well I just put my status to offline,so he wont see me.He has big dreams of coming to see me and I dont know him and wont take that chance. Patty
mighty bop Posted February 15, 2003 Posted February 15, 2003 Come on why not take a chance? He may be "the one"!
Ally Boo Posted February 17, 2003 Posted February 17, 2003 Does this guy by chance know the girl who is trying to manipulate you? I have a policy when it comes to people in my life.....if they dont respect my decisions and try to pressure me to do things the way THEY want me to, they aren't a true friend, and I don't want them around. STOP LETTING OTHER PEOPLE MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY!!!!!!!!!! ...now go block her too!! heh
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