Prim&proper Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 Friends, Remember me? In January, my ex-bf of 1.5 years broke up with me. I came on here for support (you guys are awesome). Exactly one month to the day, the ex came back begging to make it work again. I reluctantly agreed. We were back together for 2 months, one of which he was traveling. We went on a big 2 week vacation together and he came back saying that he has doubts about the relationship again. So I ended things this time around. This makes the 4th time we've broken up. It's been one month to the day today since this 4th breakup and I'm having a hard time holding it together. I have had no desire to contact him until the last two days, and i stupidly installed this program that we used to use to communicate to each other, saw that he was online and just kept being online seeing if he would contact me. Then when he didnt after 1 hour, I went to close the application. Instead I called him over the VOIP function on it instead. I quickly hung up (I don't think he answered). Then half an hour later, he logged off of the application, which was unusual because he always has it on, unless he shuts down his computer. So I realized that he must have shut down the application after he saw that I was attempting to contact him. So now i feel like a cyber stalker, and an idiot. Why is it so hard to let go this time around? Is it because I broke up with him? Tell me, does it ever get any better or easier?
IfWishesWereHorses Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 Is it possible that you just hit the wrong button while trying to chat with the new hunk you've been dating?
InvisibleTouch Posted June 2, 2007 Posted June 2, 2007 Dont beat yourself up. Dipping is only human. You are doing the right thing for sure and yes it is much harder when you finally discard them, but you had no other option. Unfortunatley this guy is trouble judging by the way he has treated you. Dont obsess over the details just acknowledge that you have done the right thing and that he is not good for you (or anyone else) Look forwards to Mr Right not back to Mr loser.
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