jessy_louise Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 My b/f off 14 months broke up with me 2 weeks ago im 17 years of age and hes 21 . He dident even seem botherd and was upset for one day and thats it. Throughout the 2 weeks hes been seeing this girl. When he told me and his family he wasent seeing anyone for months. Hes lied he would said he wanted to be friends to his mum and ask me to ring him then when i rang him say i was annoeyin and stalkin him. Now hes sayin he hates me and is trying to turn evreyone against me when i really have done nothin. I tried to be his friend and he would just call me a retard. I dont get why people believe his lies. 2 days ago i went round at sorted things out with him he said we could be friends. Then i went down town last night and he was relaly abusive towards me. And his new g/f said i gave her funny looks when iv never seen her before. why would he say he wants to be friends one day then the next be so evil. my dads stopping me from ringin him and stuff i no i shouldent but its hurtin me so much that onyl a cuple days after the break he just went and found sum one new while im heart broken hes out haveing fun. another thing im worried about is that hes persuding his new g/f to join our college course he noes i will be on it in september. This guy allos recentally delted my myspace account. I think he should be more mature hes 21. I jsut dont no why he woudl say eh wantes to be friends then the next day he hates me. Does any one have an ideas to why hes doing all this. I jsut feel like i cant cope at the minuet because i miss him so much.
curiousnycgirl Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 I hate to be so direct, but it's because he is a jerk. Age has nothing to do with maturity (although 21 is still quite young) - I dated a man who was 51 when I was 32 and I was the mature one in the relationship. I agree with your dad - don't call him, spend this time getting over him. Move on with your life - so that by the time you go to school and perhaps run into them, you could care less. I know it feels like your world is caving in right now - but I promise it does get better (and then just as bad the next time) - just stay away from him and his buddies and you'll be fine.
Green Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 Look im 23 and you have to stop anoying this guy. listen to ur dad and stop ringing people...and oh yeah it may take 3 weeks
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