larsian Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 Ok, so I will try to keep the play by play brief. My gf (lesbian relationship) and I were together for four months. Things were great, we spent a lot of time together, but in the beginning there were things I still needed to work through from my past relationship. I was very flirtatious with others in the beginning but it stopped there. I also have abandonment fears and I pushed her after she said I love you to see how unconditional our love really was. So, she broke up with me. Then gave me another chance........I did a complete 180; I needed a smack in the face to wake me up. I woke up. From that point on I was on point at every angle. Let me also add that we never fought, the break-up was completely out of the blue. We had an awesome weekend the week before last and then she dumped me last thursday. A week after texting me one night saying I love you with all of my heart. I really do. Then I get dumped. It makes no sense. She did the whole I love you but I'm not in love with you spill. A little back ground about her is that she's never gotten past 4 months, she has never stuck around after the honey moon phase. She was very hot/cold and inconsistent with her feelings. It was either ooooh baby I love you so much, or her acting like nothing was registering. And I have not eluded to her that I miss her or would even want her back because I'm not sure that I would. But, she has told me that she misses me and is losing sleep, but she knows it was the right thing. So, did I let it go to easily and not fight for something that I believed in?? I'm heartbroken but I don't want to be that girl either. And I doubt things could ever go back to the way they were in the beginning, but I'm one who believes that love is greater than being In-love. I need some insight....please.
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