Nacknack Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 So I just wanted peoples opinion on this matter. There's this girl that I've know for a few years. I talk to her occasionlly but for the most part I don't really think about her cause she has a boyfriend. Now they've broken up for almost 2 years now and she came to my birthday party and we had a few drinks, I didn't really talk to her cause I was busy drinking but I left the part for a while to get some air and sober up. I cam back and she's ask if I'm ok and then hugs me. I;ve been getting hugs all night but she held on to the point where me and her friends are asking if shes ok, she knobs and still hugs me. Eventually she lets go and leaves the room. I walk out a little later to see her talking with her friend out in the yard and I asked her if shes ok, she says she was fine so I got her a drink and went back to the party. Later on at like 1-2am she says she wants to talk to me and we go to my room and were talking about how she's so upset that she is feeling lonely and so on and Im talking to her about the problems Im having with my ex and we just talk till the sun comes up. Anyways that day passes and i pass out for a few hours. Didn't think of the matter much and went on with life. I talked to her once online for a few hours until 2-3 am about random things. A few weeks later my friend hosts a pool party and me and her, along with her ex was invited. Me and her were the first to show up cause she called me to pick her up and we left a bit early but I went out to pick up some supplies for the party so I didn't talk with her much during the beginning. I'm enjoying the party and the sun and then one of my friends call me and says that he's lost somewhere so I went to go find them and she asked if she could come. So we're in the car and we have a nice conversation and were both laughing and joking and talking about whats been going on. We find my friend and we go back to the party and continue on with it. At the end I was going to driver her back but I had a few beers so her ex drove her along (they're still friends) with a bunch of other people (one of which is her ex's new girlfriend) back home and my friend drove me back in my car cause she lives around me. So im looking at some things online and she (the girl) calls me around 1am and asks if I'm ok cause her friends in the car said I looked a little upset. I said I was fine and we talk for a bit. She talks about how she still has some issues accepting the fact that things with her ex is over and that she lonely. Im talking about how my ex still wants to get back together and she asks if I want to and i said not really and she's telling me how I should just make it clear to her then cause it was difficult for her. and we talk for about 40 minutes and I said I have to go to bed cause I need to drive a friend to the airport early in the morning. Now the troubling thing here is that I'm getting mixed signals. I've noticed that everytime we meet and leave I'm the only guy she hugs (this is throughout the year I;ve know her after her breakup). and during the pool party she always hold onto my shoulders and waist when shes passing me by. But I can't tell is shes interested in me or if she just wants to give me advice about my ex.. Either way I was just wondering what the opinions of people out there are on the matter cause I've become really intersted in her these past couple of weeks. Thanks in advance for any feedback and comments
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