loveinlife Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 What does it mean if a girl doesn't call back for 2 days... I had a friend who told me maybe the girl im seeing is acting busy to get more attention from me... im not sure and need some advice.
champagne Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 Give her a call one more time, and see if she picks up. Leave another friendly message if you get her voicemail. End the call with "give me a call, I'd love to hear from you" or something to that effect, and say your phone number, even if it's a cell. If she doesn't call you back at that point, time to give up, she's not interested.
monkey00 Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 There's no need to 'act' busy. Her interest level is either really low or non-existent. Call her again, if she doesnt pick up leave the ball in her court and move on.
Author loveinlife Posted June 1, 2007 Author Posted June 1, 2007 Thanks for the advice, i've known this girl for awhile, could it have been that i kissed her cheeks to say bye on Monday night that she is pulling away from me, im not sure... but i think i should pull away too... thanks =)
Author loveinlife Posted June 1, 2007 Author Posted June 1, 2007 this is starting to kick in...feeling kinda sad now...
champagne Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 this is starting to kick in...feeling kinda sad now... Awww...did you try to call her again?
Author loveinlife Posted June 1, 2007 Author Posted June 1, 2007 i didn't call her back... was just going to leave it as is... bad idea?
champagne Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 I'd give it one more shot. She really might be pretending to be busy and expecting you to try again.
Author loveinlife Posted June 1, 2007 Author Posted June 1, 2007 i was at work when you left me that response...i see your point in it. its now 12:46am, i'll c what happens this weekend bc we always hang out(one of her sister goes out with my good friend). Thanks a lot cham! =)
Author loveinlife Posted June 1, 2007 Author Posted June 1, 2007 just spoke to my friend...looks like she was on a night out with some guys... maybe her interest for me is zero... maybe its time to move on. what do you guys/girls think?
Star Gazer Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 just spoke to my friend...looks like she was on a night out with some guys... maybe her interest for me is zero... maybe its time to move on. what do you guys/girls think? Do THIS: "Give her a call one more time, and see if she picks up. Leave another friendly message if you get her voicemail. End the call with "give me a call, I'd love to hear from you" or something to that effect, and say your phone number, even if it's a cell. If she doesn't call you back at that point, time to give up, she's not interested."
Author loveinlife Posted June 1, 2007 Author Posted June 1, 2007 I know what you mean star, but i don't want to make it seem more ackward... if she wants wants to look for me she can... she knows my number and who i hang out with. She used to call me to go out, its been flipped and i have been calling her lately. If she likes me, she has to try too. 50/50 what do you think?
Author loveinlife Posted June 2, 2007 Author Posted June 2, 2007 ok being a hypocrit as i am, i called =D no one picked up and i left her a message to go watch a movie tonight and did the pls call me back, i'd love to hear from you...*cross fingers* thanks a lot star and cham. =)
Author loveinlife Posted June 2, 2007 Author Posted June 2, 2007 i was talking to my friend on aim that the girl only sees me as a friend and doesn't want to be in any relationship... oh wells...
Recommended Posts