pinklemonade Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 Okay. So I’m in this 3 year long term relationship headed for marriage or lifelong living together or something. Everyone in my family loves this guy and his family to me. The problem: I feel sexual trapped in this relationship. Due to this guy’s history, not to be disclosed, he will never enjoy sex and will never care to have it. : [ All the parts of a perfect relationship are there but this. Do I break it off? I’ll be losing my best friend. Do I cheat? I’ll be hurting my best friend along with everyone else. I’m in my mid 20’s and do I marry this guy and continue to be sexually frustrated for the rest of my life and deal with it because he is a good guy? Most girls would go nuts for a good guy but how about one that will never enjoy sex with you. Almost no intimate touching. I’m dying inside and of course he knows because we are best friends. I feel guilty for even having thoughts. just the thought of breaking up over sex..AHHH. Advice please.
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