SHES BACK!!! AFTER almost A YEAR!

[Adam]

Hi my names Adam im 23 i was dating this girl that is now 20 for 4 years. In August of last year we had a fight and she broke up with me. Now i tryed EVERYTHING in the world to get her back. Flowers, Notes, e-mails, etc. We'll nothing worked and i saw through her myspace that she started dating some guys no one she ever dated though lasted longer than a month. I dated nobody cause i figured that she would come back. We'll 7 months later im very lonely and she's on her 5th guy well i give up, im starting to feel better i miss her a little, then i meet someone at my work and me and her hit it off, i rarely think of my ex but every once in awile, well now i've been dating her for almost 3 months.

 

We'll i wake up yesterday to a text message that read " I'm ready to be friends now, if this is a bad time in your life disregard this text" IM LIKE NO WAY! This is a girl that wouldn't give me the time of day, return a call, ANSWER A CALL by me, write me back an e-mail, she treated me like scum after 4 years. NOW SHE WRITES THAT??

Is it because i gave up trying to get her? Did no contact work? Or is she just finding out that no one will treat her as good as me.

 

Now heres the thing i love my ex, and my new girlfriend rocks, i just dont know what to do? I want to see my ex, but i dont know if shes just playing mind games again? Like she just wants to mess up my new relationship after all this time or if she wants me back.

 

Should i go be her friend or just leave her alone?

Take her out once and feel out the situation or just NC again and focus on my new GF?

 

ANY ADVICE WOULD BE GREAT!!

[2ndIINone]

This is a girl that wouldn't give me the time of day, return a call, ANSWER A CALL by me, write me back an e-mail, she treated me like scum after 4 years.

 

Hmmm... she sounds like a real 'catch' that anyone would want back in their life.

 

and my new girlfriend rocks,

 

First time I've heard a girl described this way... kinda hit home... as if you really like her and have accepted her... so why kick a good girl to the curb for a girl you already know is bad?

 

Why is the ex back??? That's how it works.... life... relationships... little bit of all your reasons...

 

Distance... you moved on... you're happy, she's not.... she thought the grass was greener... 5 times over... she's miserable. Hey, let her go back to all the guys she dumped you for....and DON'T give up a good thing with the new girl just to be friends with the old.... she doesn't deserve to be hurt and your ex doesn't deserve your friendship.

 

" I'm ready to be friends now, if this is a bad time in your life disregard this text"

 

This is a test... if you ignore, she'll come on stronger...if you deny, she turn it around on you down the road.... if you accept her back.... you're a fool... and she'll burn you once again in the near future...