HennyPenny Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 At times I am so angry that I've let this man get to me as much as he has. I don't really feel like going into the whole history. Basically I feel like I'm being groomed by a MM. He is somewhat aware of my feelings for him. He has been all over me for quite some time. I have been so weak at times I felt like I would be with him under any circumstances. This is what he wants, because (of course) he is not leaving his wife. He has managed to intimidate any other man who happens to show any interest in me whatsoever. Except for "John." John is my "type." He's unique, cultured, cute, and FRIGGIN SINGLE. He does wonderful things, like makes very bold flirtatious eyes at me in front of MM's desk. What I find especially hilarious is when he comes in the break room when I'm sitting down to lunch and takes MM's chair. Then looks at MM smugly when he comes in and throws his food down at the other table and sulks behind his newspaper. I am actually attracted to John and that's saying something, since MM is the first man I've been attracted to in many years. We have so much more in common than MM and I. Maybe MM made him angry somehow in our work environment and he's getting revenge? All I know is that regardless of anything else I sense a mutual attraction and I'm relishing MM's jealousy and his childish behavior. Since this is all fairly new I'm trying to decide how I feel. Am I being cruel, flaunting this all in front of MM's face and enjoying it so much, or does the married snake deserve to be hurt for basically trying to instigate a EMA? At this time, I'm leaning toward the latter.
torranceshipman Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 Single guy sounds awesome, go for it! And that MM is a total sleaze, so you and your new guy have as much fun as you want! Yea, sounds like the MM was 'grooming' you too, the total utter sleazebag...like he has a right to be jealous, he's M...feel SO sorry for his poor W to be stuck with a loser like him...avoid him like the plague unless its to have a bit of fun at his expense, hehe
Kenzo Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 I love how jealous they get, like they have any right! Whether or not you are looking to start up with the SG or just torment the MM a little, doesn't it feel good to let him know that he is not the be all and end all for you... I know my MM loses it when I talk about other guys or we go somewhere and someone looks at me, after all, I am SINGLE because he chooses to keep me SINGLE.
BurriedAlive Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 You go, Girl!!!!!!!!!!!! He is still married because that's HIS choice. Don't let him get to you. Don't make him feel bad for liking someone else. At least you may have a future with John instead of just being MM's side dish. If he wants you, he can leave his wife. Argh, it makes me so angry how MMs want it ALL. Life isn't like that - you can't have it all.
Seen_It_All Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 ...or does the married snake deserve to be hurt for basically trying to instigate a EMA?You sure got THAT right. Why do you even give this scumbag the time of day? Is it because he's BORED, or because his wife doesn't UNDERSTAND him, or because his wife won't have SEX with him - like they ALL claim? That's his supposed problem, not yours. Do yourself a huge favor and don't waste your time becoming a play thing for some self-entitled scumbag whose just looking for some fun.
IpAncA Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 Since this is all fairly new I'm trying to decide how I feel. Am I being cruel, flaunting this all in front of MM's face and enjoying it so much, or does the married snake deserve to be hurt for basically trying to instigate a EMA? At this time, I'm leaning toward the latter. You should be leaning WAY over towards single men.
frannie Posted May 31, 2007 Posted May 31, 2007 Is it wrong to want to be with someone..? No. But I'd say it depends on why and what for...and what about that person? Are you doing it to be one in the eye for MM? Where is that going to get you? Or are you asking because MM is telling you you're his..? Really, you should be doing things because they're what you want, what makes you happy, and not because they hurt or influence others. IF you really like this person, then why not be with him..? But if it's all about what it makes MM feel, then you're doing it for very silly (and manipulative) reasons...
hardcase Posted June 1, 2007 Posted June 1, 2007 At times I am so angry that I've let this man get to me as much as he has. I don't really feel like going into the whole history. Basically I feel like I'm being groomed by a MM. He is somewhat aware of my feelings for him. He has been all over me for quite some time. I have been so weak at times I felt like I would be with him under any circumstances. This is what he wants, because (of course) he is not leaving his wife. He has managed to intimidate any other man who happens to show any interest in me whatsoever. Except for "John." John is my "type." He's unique, cultured, cute, and FRIGGIN SINGLE. So why do I get this feeling that you are going to dog John and give the MM exactly what he wants?
Author HennyPenny Posted June 2, 2007 Author Posted June 2, 2007 Because you're assuming that I'm some scheming hobag who is simply delighted to lay on my back for a married man. MAybe you have a few issues of your own you'd like to share with the class? I know there's something wrong about wanting to rub his face in it, but I still feel like his behavior has been wrong and I feel sorry for his wife. I know I can't say I'm completely innocent in all this, but I never instigated his attention and I was always very clear with him that as long as he's married, he's off-limits to me. It's so obvious that he's a typical cake-eater. I might not have known this if I hadn't read here.
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