Ruby Tuesday Posted June 5, 2007 Posted June 5, 2007 Oh my gosh, there are so many things wrong with this story I don't even know where to start. 1. If he is so willing in wanting to be with you, why doesnt he tell her straight out he is living with you? Why lie and say he is staying with a friend? To keep that door back home an open door. 2. Second, if he is so honest and so loyal with those he loves, then why is he having an affair? Because he isnt so honest and he isnt so loyal. Words vs actions. Love isnt a verb it is an action. Okay with that out of the way, now you said you were against this sort of thing and couldnt accept it because you grew up with it. Do you want to spend you adult life dealing with the same childhood issues you have as a kid? Are you going to be the person you despised the most? Lastly, I hope this MM is at least paying the bills. I sincerly hope you are not feeding him and sheltering him at your own expense. This man is a grown person and should start learning to stand on his own two feet without having a woman doing everything for him. PS I agree with the others who said that the wife knows something (after all her husband has been absent for months any fool would guess he wasnt alone) and as long as he has her believe he is at a buddys house he can have his cake and his wife/marriage/status/control too. Eeew! Plus, he sounds like a real master manipulator, letting you think you are calling the shots in the relationship but already knows the answer you will give. He uses your love to manipulate you and thats just messed up. My advice is to re-read your first post in this thread, and just read it (out loud) and as though it was another persons story. What advice would you give her?
LNF_Clone Posted June 6, 2007 Posted June 6, 2007 Oh my gosh, there are so many things wrong with this story I don't even know where to start. 1. If he is so willing in wanting to be with you, why doesnt he tell her straight out he is living with you? Why lie and say he is staying with a friend? To keep that door back home an open door. 2. Second, if he is so honest and so loyal with those he loves, then why is he having an affair? Because he isnt so honest and he isnt so loyal. Words vs actions. Love isnt a verb it is an action. Okay with that out of the way, now you said you were against this sort of thing and couldnt accept it because you grew up with it. Do you want to spend you adult life dealing with the same childhood issues you have as a kid? Are you going to be the person you despised the most? Lastly, I hope this MM is at least paying the bills. I sincerly hope you are not feeding him and sheltering him at your own expense. This man is a grown person and should start learning to stand on his own two feet without having a woman doing everything for him. PS I agree with the others who said that the wife knows something (after all her husband has been absent for months any fool would guess he wasnt alone) and as long as he has her believe he is at a buddys house he can have his cake and his wife/marriage/status/control too. Eeew! Plus, he sounds like a real master manipulator, letting you think you are calling the shots in the relationship but already knows the answer you will give. He uses your love to manipulate you and thats just messed up. My advice is to re-read your first post in this thread, and just read it (out loud) and as though it was another persons story. What advice would you give her? Is this true love or just a kidnapping? Originally Posted by Ruby Tuesday June will be one year since the karma bus hit OW (for the fourth time) but she is posting pics of herself wearing the leather harley davidson coat he gave her. (Here little Bunny You better hold on to that coat because it's the only part left of him that is gonna keep you warm at night.) Originally Posted by Romeo Must Die He also bought OW a leather Harley Davidson coat without my knowledge. I got nothing for Christmas. I paid for our childrens gifts. I wouldn't find out about the coat until a year later. I'm not afraid I'm wearing a tie you go home. BTW - Did I tell you guys I own a real leather Harley Davidson leather coat, huh?
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