Lindylou73 Posted May 30, 2007 Posted May 30, 2007 Well I am new to this, and to break ups so I really would like some encouraging words and advice. My husband of 14 years(been together for 17 years) was busted by me ,having an affair. I have been with this man half my life and i am totally in shock. I met my husband when i was 17 and he was 25, I have always just loved him so much. He has had his faults but as niave as this sounds, he seemed so straight forward. NEVER would i have ever believed he would do this.She is a married woman too and has not left her husband. My husband was more pissed off that I found out rather then him cheating. He actually laughed when I told him i know. We have 4 kids and my whole world has been turned upside down. I would never believed that one person could cry so much, I am trying to be strong in front of the kids but I totally lose it at times. This only happened 5 days ago but the affair has been going on for8 weeeks(that I know of). All my dreams of living with this man for the rest of my life are shattered. How do I move on from all this.Shamelessly to say, even though I know he has cheated on me I have begged over the last few days for him to come back, I can't seem to picture my life without him. Anyone out there got any advice on ways to cope. My only consolation is he left me for someone older than him and 12 years older than me.Please help me .Linda
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