Beatnik Posted January 22, 2003 Posted January 22, 2003 Ok I want to hear even the most trivial pet peeves that women have about men. Also on a side note I would like to announce that I am now seeing one of the very, very, very few INTELLIGENT girls in my town, finally breaking my long marathon of single-ism.
Sketchy Posted January 22, 2003 Posted January 22, 2003 I don't like clingy guys. I usually end up with the type that tell me they love me with in 1 month, want to be with me day in day out... possessive and jealous. Public affection is ok, but within reason. I don't like guys that hang all over me as if trying to make the statement of "this is MY girl" I don't like someone elses life evolving around me. If I'm not there then they are not happy. I like cocky guys, but not overly so that they are too self absorbed. I don't like stinky, sloppy or lazy guys. I could write a novel... I'll stop here. Be genuine
Ally Boo Posted January 22, 2003 Posted January 22, 2003 Oh yes I agree with her... However..... I dont like guys who are controlling...like if I wanna go to a party or somewhere...and him pout about it, or be weird. Not that he can't go, but I dont want him spending every second with me...and I want to be able to have other friends. Guys who don't tell me how they feel...honestly. Liars SUCK. I dont know, I find that there are fewer problems when the guy knows what he wants and is very clear.
HokeyReligions Posted January 22, 2003 Posted January 22, 2003 Adjust 'em before you leave the house or lavatory. I'm used to seeing ball players adjust themselves in public, but I HATE it when I see a guy shake a leg or worse yet - reach down and rearrange them!
Ally Boo Posted January 22, 2003 Posted January 22, 2003 I hate it when guys leave wet clothes in the washer...but that doesn't really have to do with dating! heh
quankanne Posted January 22, 2003 Posted January 22, 2003 whatever you do, don't lie about stuff. for example, if you feel uncomfortable about a question she asks, tell her straight out that you're not comfortable answering that question, especially when it's of a personal nature. she might not like the answer, but it's way better than lying! also, don't be a jerk by acting superior or bragging on yourself. The anal pore I dated way back when used to just put people down just to make himself look superior and it was so annoying. He also used to talk about other women he had, about his prowess so that when we finally had sex, I couldn't believe he was so proud of such crappy performance! and of course, watch your language, watch your hygience and mind your manners. slip up on that stuff and she's going to wonder whatever attracted her to you
Ally Boo Posted January 22, 2003 Posted January 22, 2003 What she just said is SO true. Just remember....always be yourself. That will take care of most of your problems right there.
Author Beatnik Posted January 23, 2003 Author Posted January 23, 2003 I'm glad I've had the relationships that I have, they have all been learning experiences. I screwed up a few relationships by saying "I love you" too early, so the results of my actions stuck with me and I automatically adjusted as to not screw up anymore relationships. But with my present girlfriend I think I may be too distant, we rarly see each other except on the weekends, and we go to the same school! The relationship actully sparked from a double-date. My friend was interested in my now girlfriend but she wouldnt go unless her best friend came, so I opted to go. By the end of the date we had switched dates, and me and my girlfriend held hands and cuddled the rest of the night. After that she called up my friend saying she wanted to go out with me, so he relayed the message. I thought she meant to go out on a date so I asked her and she said ok. Turns out she was looking for a simple boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, which actually made me a little uncomfortable because I had changed into this guy who likes to take it slow. But I'll live Jeez I am a windbag
Angel Posted January 23, 2003 Posted January 23, 2003 pay attention to sports/their friends more than me don't take me to dinner (once a week is nice---doesn't have to be expensive) don't offer to help out don't do what they say they're going to do don't clean up after themselves in the bathroom don't have good hygiene assume that I will be there no matter what (take me/the relationship for granted) are too loud don't put me first (I, in return, place them first) ...
quankanne Posted January 23, 2003 Posted January 23, 2003 gripe about using their razor blade when your intention was to look good for them. Not my fault my husband got to it before I could locate new blades! And it REALLY bugs me when he swears he'll save the last bit of ice cream for me, but then "accidentally" eats it. Moral: share share share!
yes Posted January 23, 2003 Posted January 23, 2003 I like what Angel said. I HATE nail-biting, or nails cut extremely short. I also hate it when the toe next to the big toe is longer than the big toe. Those are the silly pet peeves of mine =) By the way, be careful with that gal who's jumping into a gf/bf relationship. Something's fishy about it! But hey - good luck =)
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