Onherown Posted May 28, 2007 Posted May 28, 2007 Hi, I have a big big problem. I am jaleous to a point that's almost ridiculous. I didn't used to be but I cannot trust my husband. I know, why would you marry someone you don't trust. Well the thing is after we got married I discovered a lot of things, a previous marriage he didn't tell me about, lots of little things and even his real age that he had hidden from me until his mom mentioned his birth year at a family dinner. Since that, I'm always on his back, I check his emails, his phone, the phone bill (in case he erases numbers in his phone) and call the numbers I don't know. I went though his old stuff, personal papers and stuff. Check the internet historic every day after he uses the computer. It is eating my brain slowly, I go crazy here, I'm at home all day with our newborn and work from home as a webmaster. Everytime I find a little something I am sure that he cheats and Iam a very dramatic person, I'll call him at work and make a scene, cry etc and at that moment I really believe I'm right. I think it started when we stopped having sex as much as want, before it was just all the time, like 6 times a day and we were not missing a day and it suddenly became every two weeks, if i try he rejects me and says that's all i think about... So in my mind i started thinking hat something was happening. truth is he is always at work, i know it and comes back right after, calls me if he's a minute late etc but still, i think i'm crazy... and that's gonna ruin our marriage if i go on. What should i do?
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